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  • Mutant
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Sis_Asiya View Post
    Gosh what a disgusting thing to say. Says a lot about you as a person
    Yes. I am a very disgustinggggg person

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  • Sis_Asiya
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    Marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am I gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burnt demon from the flames of hell?
    Gosh what a disgusting thing to say. Says a lot about you as a person

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  • obaid_m
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    Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    I have thought of this a lot. There is no answer for this

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  • snow_flakes
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    No. I would beg her to leave me. I never wanna be a burden on those I love.
    It d put more burden of guilt on the partner s part...more than you being a burden on her...

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  • snow_flakes
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    Marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am I gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burnt demon from the flames of hell?
    Thats cruel to say so...This could ve been the other way round...

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  • Serinity
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    :salams

    I don't think there is unconditional love. To a certain degree yes, but not completely. There is a limit. But to answer your question. yes.

    There is somewhere in the Qur'an (as far as I know)

    4:19
    O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good.

    And Allah (SWT) knows best.

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  • Mutant
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Fragile View Post
    What if you were the one deformed... How would you feel if your wife left you? Surely you will rethink your answer today and say "I need to have mercy" because we all are prone to this fate, it happens every day as we speak... You're human aren't you.. So becarful how you go about things in life, Allah Swt might test you with what you dislike
    No. I would beg her to leave me. I never wanna be a burden on those I love.

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  • Fragile
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    No way
    What if you were the one deformed... How would you feel if your wife left you? Surely you will rethink your answer today and say "I need to have mercy" because we all are prone to this fate, it happens every day as we speak... You're human aren't you.. So becarful how you go about things in life, Allah Swt might test you with what you dislike

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  • Strive
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Fragile View Post
    Allah forbid and may he remain in the best of health, United beside me Ameen..

    Yes I would
    Ameen

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  • Strive
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    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    Well if she has 60% of her body burnt, 2 missing hands, 1 missing ear, a broken nose, half an eye, bald burnt head..that definitely can pass for something from the movie The Conjouring
    It's Ramadan so I don't want to say something I regret.

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  • Fragile
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Allah forbid and may he remain in the best of health, United beside me Ameen..

    Yes I would

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  • bismillaah
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    Marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am I gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burnt demon from the flames of hell?

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  • Mutant
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Strive View Post
    So people who have been burnt in fires are burnt demons? Astagfirullah
    Well if she has 60% of her body burnt, 2 missing hands, 1 missing ear, a broken nose, half an eye, bald burnt head..that definitely can pass for something from the movie The Conjouring

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  • Strive
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by Mutant View Post
    Marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am I gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burnt demon from the flames of hell?
    So people who have been burnt in fires are burnt demons? Astagfirullah

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  • ابن مرة
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    Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

    Originally posted by mutant View Post
    marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am i gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burnt demon from the flames of hell?
    .....
    Last edited by ابن مرة; 19-06-16, 01:18 PM. Reason: nvm

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