Marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am I gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burnt demon from the flames of hell?
Gosh what a disgusting thing to say. Says a lot about you as a person
82. Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, "be", and it is! 83. So glory to Him in Whose hands is the dominion of all things: and to Him will you be all brought back. Quran surah 36: Ya-sin
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?
Yeah I'd stay. This is a person you love and live with. How could you leave them when they're at their lowest?
Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.
82. Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, "be", and it is! 83. So glory to Him in Whose hands is the dominion of all things: and to Him will you be all brought back. Quran surah 36: Ya-sin
Marrying for beauty is not wrong. Also, a man( and a woman) has biological needs. How am I gonna get intimate when my spouse looks like a burntdemonfromtheflamesofhell?
Well if she has 60% of her body burnt, 2 missing hands, 1 missing ear, a broken nose, half an eye, bald burnt head..thatdefinitelycanpassforsomethingfromthemovieTheConjouring
That's an extremely insensitive thing to say.
How would you feel if you were deformed (May Allah protect you from that), and people spoke about you this way? This is a sensitive topic so the last thing that's needed is to use hurtful language towards individuals with deformities.
How would you feel if you were deformed (May Allah protect you from that), and people spoke about you this way? This is a sensitive topic so the last thing that's needed is to use hurtful language towards individuals with deformities.
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?
I don't care if you people see me as some devil for me saying what I would do in such a situation. Most people would do what I would do. Stop trying to romanticise deformity. No one would wanna live a life with someone that has become hideously deformed.
No. I would beg her to leave me. I never wanna be a burden on those I love.
That's what you say now... But if it happens you will need those you love to support you and stand by you because that's what family is meant to do...
I know a brother who was 17 at the time of his accident... He owned a motorbike and a week after his purchase he had a really bad accident.. Paralysed from the neck down, his brain was half removed and we can clearly see the hole and he can not speak so he blinks instead... He still has all his senses but he can not move... That accident happened 20 years ago and he's still alive even though doctors confirmed that he will not last a few months.. You know why? Because his family love him and supported him from day one.. His brothers change his nappies and bath him, their wives cook and keep his cloths clean, they speak to him and wait patiently as he replies.. That's what family is meant to be.. If they threw him I'm sure he will not be here today.
That's what you say now... But if it happens you will need those you love to support you and stand by you because that's what family is meant to do...
I know a brother who was 17 at the time of his accident... He owned a motorbike and a week after his purchase he had a really bad accident.. Paralysed from the neck down, his brain was half removed and we can clearly see the hole and he can not speak so he blinks instead... He still has all his senses but he can not move... That accident happened 20 years ago and he's still alive even though doctors confirmed that he will not last a few months.. You know why? Because his family love him and supported him from day one.. His brothers change his nappies and bath him, their wives cook and keep his cloths clean, they speak to him and wait patiently as he replies.. That's what family is meant to be.. If they threw him I'm sure he will not be here today.
Becarful [MENTION=136911]Mutant[/MENTION]... You sound like you think you're "almighty" when in fact you're just as weak and frail as everyone else.
Is that you wishing some bad omen on me? Perhaps you can make dua in your prayers so Allah can break my back or have my eyes pulled out in some freak accident. It will make you feel better about your existence I'm sure
Don't mind me... I can't bare it, truely can't. You sound very childish, I presume you're still young and naive so I won't be too bothered by what you say however take it from someone who has done and achieved so much in her life.. The world goes round in circles and how you are with others, some day someone will treat you the same.. It may be harsh or tender but it's your doing that conflicted it.
I sure hope who ever you will marry one day, has the opportunity to find out what your views are considering this sad matter... I'm sure no sister will accept such ignorance, for her sake.
I love you, cherish you and worship you,
Guide me on your path to your janna,
Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,
Is that you wishing some bad omen on me? Perhaps you can make dua in your prayers so Allah can break my back or have my eyes pulled out in some freak accident. It will make you feel better about your existence I'm sure
You're in denial and truely unexperienced in life... Your views are very narrow. Have you not noticed?
I love you, cherish you and worship you,
Guide me on your path to your janna,
Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,
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