I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

[Striving for Janna]

as of june 17, 2016, I have an estimated between 1,675 and 1,720 days left (based on when I'll get a job for my global studies, or finance or economic major) until I possibly begin courting the girl I left behind in Florida over skype, and a little bit more than that until my possible wedding.....so far it has been 7-8 years since we were friends.....call me crazy if you want, but if I didn't use this coping strategy, I would be doing crazier things.........what do you think about me counting down the days until I meet my beloved?

[Stoic Believer]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Question: is she at all aware of your interest in marrying her? Does she even know you feel this way?

[Poster]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

as of june 17, 2016, I have an estimated between 1,675 and 1,720 days left (based on when I'll get a job for my global studies, or finance or economic major) until I possibly begin courting the girl I left behind in Florida over skype, and a little bit more than that until my possible wedding.....so far it has been 7-8 years since we were friends.....call me crazy if you want, but if I didn't use this coping strategy, I would be doing crazier things.........what do you think about me counting down the days until I meet my beloved?

I think it's completely bonkers.

[bismillaah]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

well if ur sure ur marrying her then i think its beyond cute :inlove:

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Question: is she at all aware of your interest in marrying her? Does she even know you feel this way?

unfortunately, since we are still teenagers and I don't have a job yet.....her dad would forbid me from engaging in talking about that......it would not be seen as modest.....and even if I was 5 years older than her with a well paying job, my jamaat places an emphasis on education, so id have to wait until she finishes her degree......but I think she knows, what with all the desperate attention I gave her on social media a few years back, and how I kept calling her dad a few years back to talk to her over the phone, which led to him getting mad at me...(probably because he thought it wasn't modest)......

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Question: is she at all aware of your interest in marrying her? Does she even know you feel this way?

also, one other thing.....I told her when I was in the 4th grade, but I highly doubt that counts....also, in the 8th grade, I drew a picture on a board of a heart with her name and my name in it, and her dad saw.....

[Atwork.]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

unfortunately, since we are still teenagers and I don't have a job yet.....her dad would forbid me from engaging in talking about that......it would not be seen as modest.....and even if I was 5 years older than her with a well paying job, my jamaat places an emphasis on education, so id have to wait until she finishes her degree......but I think she knows, what with all the desperate attention I gave her on social media a few years back, and how I kept calling her dad a few years back to talk to her over the phone, which led to him getting mad at me...(probably because he thought it wasn't modest)......

you're just hoping. this girl could easily not care one bit about you.

[.mirror.]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

:salams

How much Quran have you read so far this Ramadan?

[frustrated101]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Bro, you're not getting married to anyone in the next decade. Don't worry about it. Stop obsessing. You're screaming for help, I wish I was near you, I'd smack some reality into you.

You're barely 18. Go burn off the energy at the gym. Go and learn about the deen. Memorize the Quran, succeed in school. Do something that will benefit you.

How about I tell you that you'll marry none of these girls? You'll find someone when you're ready, there are millions and millions of muslimahs, stop pining for ones you interacted with when you were a kid.

[F_R]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

:rotfl:

May Allah help you

[Foodadad]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Didn't you love your cousin?

[shann]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Y u stalking bro?

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Didn't you love your cousin?

I don't anymore....

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

Y u stalking bro?

im not stalking.....im hyperfocusing....

[Creamcake]

Re: I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

For ppl that dont know and are mocking the bro lemme jus point summat out...
Hyperfocusing is a trait of ADHD
There has been cases where ppl dont even recognise their own room is on fire (and its literally burning)because they have ADHD, are are hyperfocused on something else..
I know ppl irl who have ADHD are how debilitating this is, so yeah just wanted to point that out..