Re: I'm desperate....
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may ALLAH help you.
i've been praying for you. in shaa Allah, ALLAH swt will find a way out soon.
my advise to you, my brother, is please dont wish for the people who dont care about you. you're only going to get more and more hurt and obsessed and you dont deserve that.
try to bond with your parents, go out and make friends. also, if your relation is better with your parents, they'll understand you want to get married and maybe help you out. please ....your parents are far more worth than those girls anyway. and if you find a good friend, i dont think you'll need those girls anymore. but again: parents first!
and no, no matter what people say, i'm going to say its not strange for you to cuddle pillows....trust me i've cuddled trees in public :embar: although people think i'm mentally ill (so do doctors) i dont care. i know its because i dont have any family or friends around. i got no shoulder to cry on, no one to share my secrets with, no one to care about me so yeah i dont care about people and do whatever makes me feel good.
focus more on your academics and relation with your parents and more importantly ALLAH swt. go find a friend if you feel lonely.
i'm sorry if this doesn't sound nice but those girls dont deserve all this, and you deserve better.
only if you keep trying you'll get over it. you cant sit back and wait for things to happen.
Originally posted by Striving for Janna
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may ALLAH help you.
i've been praying for you. in shaa Allah, ALLAH swt will find a way out soon.
my advise to you, my brother, is please dont wish for the people who dont care about you. you're only going to get more and more hurt and obsessed and you dont deserve that.
try to bond with your parents, go out and make friends. also, if your relation is better with your parents, they'll understand you want to get married and maybe help you out. please ....your parents are far more worth than those girls anyway. and if you find a good friend, i dont think you'll need those girls anymore. but again: parents first!
and no, no matter what people say, i'm going to say its not strange for you to cuddle pillows....trust me i've cuddled trees in public :embar: although people think i'm mentally ill (so do doctors) i dont care. i know its because i dont have any family or friends around. i got no shoulder to cry on, no one to share my secrets with, no one to care about me so yeah i dont care about people and do whatever makes me feel good.
focus more on your academics and relation with your parents and more importantly ALLAH swt. go find a friend if you feel lonely.
i'm sorry if this doesn't sound nice but those girls dont deserve all this, and you deserve better.
only if you keep trying you'll get over it. you cant sit back and wait for things to happen.
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