I'm counting down the days until I meet my beloved....

[ibzy]

Re: I'm desperate....

Dude, I think you're just horny (sorry to be crude).

[shann]

Re: I'm desperate....

Just wait, you're young you got a lot of time.

[Miss Foxxy]

Re: I'm desperate....

If I had a dollar for every thread you made about marriage then Bill Gates would be jealous.

[ابن مرة]

Re: I'm desperate....

If I had a dollar for every thread you made about marriage then Bill Gates would be jealous.

[bismillaah]

Re: I'm desperate....

.......wrong thread

[Ibn Taleb]

Re: I'm desperate....

Once you start hoping it hurts more, so keep your options open and your guard up

This is pro advice OP ... Have some sabr and keep trying with ur parents

[Winter]

Re: I'm desperate....

good point, but how else will others distinguish?

I don't know maybe Girl A and Girl B or you said one was a childhood friend and the other a cousin, use that.

[muslimboy764]

Re: I'm desperate....

You're going to become mad , focus your thoughts on other things in life

[meentajir]

Re: I'm desperate....

Nurgul

:cower:

may ALLAH help you.
i've been praying for you. in shaa Allah, ALLAH swt will find a way out soon.

my advise to you, my brother, is please dont wish for the people who dont care about you. you're only going to get more and more hurt and obsessed and you dont deserve that.

try to bond with your parents, go out and make friends. also, if your relation is better with your parents, they'll understand you want to get married and maybe help you out. please ....your parents are far more worth than those girls anyway. and if you find a good friend, i dont think you'll need those girls anymore. but again: parents first!

and no, no matter what people say, i'm going to say its not strange for you to cuddle pillows....trust me i've cuddled trees in public :embar: although people think i'm mentally ill (so do doctors) i dont care. i know its because i dont have any family or friends around. i got no shoulder to cry on, no one to share my secrets with, no one to care about me so yeah i dont care about people and do whatever makes me feel good.

focus more on your academics and relation with your parents and more importantly ALLAH swt. go find a friend if you feel lonely.

i'm sorry if this doesn't sound nice but those girls dont deserve all this, and you deserve better.

only if you keep trying you'll get over it. you cant sit back and wait for things to happen.

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm desperate....

:salams

I don't think these girls would appreciate you sharing their names online.

good point, but how else will others distinguish?

[Winter]

Re: I'm desperate....

:salams

I don't think these girls would appreciate you sharing their names online.

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm desperate....

sooo...now its nurgul or serra?

Nurgul

[meentajir]

Re: I'm desperate....

sooo...now its nurgul or serra?

[Miss Foxxy]

Re: I'm desperate....

Focus on your realtionship with Allah and He will send the right one to you when the time is right....

[Striving for Janna]

Re: I'm desperate....

What did I just read....? :scratch:

Brother, you have to stop obsessing about marriage. Focus on other things in life.

I am focused on other things.....like studying social sciences, funny videos on YouTube, memes, SpongeBob, horror (like urban legends), etc.