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  • Re: I'm desperate....

    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    if you're desperate, you aren't ready
    ///thread closed////
    Allah gave us two ears and one mouth, so we can listen more and talk less.

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    • Re: I'm desperate....

      Aaaaawww cute boy :o

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      • Re: I'm desperate....

        Marriage isn't as wonderful as you seem to think it is.

        Sure, it does have wonderful moments, but it's not all perfect and love and happy times, especially in the beginning.

        Good things happen to those who are patient. Good things happen when we are not expecting them. When you stop thinking about marriage, praying for marriage, waiting for marriage, etc.... You will find the person you're waiting for, Insha'Allah.

        You're desperate for a wife, but maybe try to come to terms with the fact that you need to wait for a reason? You need more time to work on yourself brother. :) These are crucial years in your development, both in character and in deen.

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        • Re: I'm desperate....

          when i was your age i obsessed over Sega and Nintendo. didn't want no girl getting in between me and my gaming. my how times have changed. find a hobby bro.
          لآ اِلَهَ اِلّا اللّهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُوُل اللّهِ

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          • Re: My mother says she'll disown me if I marry my cousin....

            This is emotional blackmail, but i would advise the OP to give in, not because mother is right but because, there are other girls out there as well.

            But the "you have one parent but can marry wives" line is wrong to be used in such case


            Parents sometimes use it to push a child to divorce, the alternative being effective disowning .....

            unfortunately south asian societies in particular do not recognize parental abuse, all is fair game for a parent to do because Islam in their belief has not forbidden parents from doing anything

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            • Re: My mother says she'll disown me if I marry my cousin....

              Originally posted by Nomadicforumer View Post
              It depends on how suitable your cousin is. If she's really the whole package, don't let her go easily. Your mum is at the end of the day a mum and she will give you her blessings. ft.
              not true, an obstinate parent can refuse todo that, just not to lose "face"

              there are some really stubborn people out there, with personality disorders, they are very good ppl otherwise, may even be god fearing,

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              • Re: My mother says she'll disown me if I marry my cousin....

                Dang, OP was banned. Did he really deserve that?

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                • Re: My mother says she'll disown me if I marry my cousin....

                  Aww why did he get banned? Did it really come to that?!

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                  • Re: My mother says she'll disown me if I marry my cousin....

                    Why banned?
                    I love you, cherish you and worship you,
                    Guide me on your path to your janna,
                    Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,


                    :love:Allah:love:

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                    • My mother says she'll disown me if I marry my cousin....

                      I don't see why not
                      Quran 45:23-24

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                      • How do I lower my gaze online?

                        I searched my cousin Serra's Instagram page, partly because I wanted to see if she had blocked me, and partly to see if there was any sign she was broken over her parents losing their teaching jobs and having their licenses revoked in the aftermath of the Turkish coup attempt (a purge is going on of all gulenists).......I looked at her photos, she seemed happy, and then I stared and stared because I thought she was beautiful, and I knew it was haram but I couldn't help myself......I want to know how to resist the urge to look......I can't fast because my mom's not allowing me to fast until my exam prep classes are over, and school is about to start and she doesn't want me fasting on school days.......what should I do?

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                        • Re: How do I lower my gaze online?

                          Don't go on Instagram.

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                          • Re: How do I lower my gaze online?

                            Disconnect.

                            Not only will you be saved from online fitna, everyone else will be saved from your nonsense.

                            Everybody wins!

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                            • Re: How do I lower my gaze online?

                              It sounds like your intention was innocent from the start, but that quickly changed.

                              As soon as you feel your intention changing, that's when you need to stop. You need to learn control and how to restrict yourself. As soon as you had gotten the information you had originally come for, you should have left her page.

                              It is a two way street though... By posting those photos and, it seems, making them public, she's opening herself up to be looked at by anyone who scrolls through her pictures. I hope she's aware of this.

                              Nevertheless, just don't go on her page again. :)
                              Last edited by Comrox; 28-07-16, 06:08 AM.

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                              • Re: How do I lower my gaze online?

                                dont go on those sites; your bipolar will make you stare and stare!

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