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    ok ive been married for 20 years, kids are grown up..last few years marriage has not been so good so missus has left me and living elsewhere with kids. she has said that i can get married again and is happy for me to do so...what shall i do ?, can i look for a new partner or would i need a divorce or something first ? even though she said i can..really confused ,

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    Re: do i get married again

    Originally posted by islamstheway View Post
    ok ive been married for 20 years, kids are grown up..last few years marriage has not been so good so missus has left me and living elsewhere with kids. she has said that i can get married again and is happy for me to do so...what shall i do ?, can i look for a new partner or would i need a divorce or something first ? even though she said i can..really confused ,
    Salamu'alaikum, is everything definatetly over between u two or can u find some sort of reconciliation?
    "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

    "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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      Re: do i get married again

      ws - tried many times but its not working, we seem to have just drifted apart..enoughis enough,

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        Re: do i get married again

        Do you want another wife?

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          Re: do i get married again

          Originally posted by islamstheway View Post
          ws - tried many times but its not working, we seem to have just drifted apart..enoughis enough,
          If u don't want a divorce u can keep ur wife. That is allowed.

          If she truly is ok with u remarrying so sit her down and explain seriously and ask her not give a response straight away but to think on it.
          "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

          "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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            Re: do i get married again

            yes i do want have another wife, she is ok with that, i cant remain alone for the rest of my life, im a man and i have needs, i dont want to go out and commit zina...i want to do what is islamically correct and allowed.

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              Re: do i get married again

              Originally posted by islamstheway View Post
              yes i do want have another wife, she is ok with that, i cant remain alone for the rest of my life, im a man and i have needs, i dont want to go out and commit zina...i want to do what is islamically correct and allowed.
              Go for it I say. It might be a bit complicated if you live in the West however. You might need to legally register the marriage with your second wife, which you can't do if you haven't divorced your first wife.

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                Re: do i get married again

                so looks like divorce is the only option for me first then look for a second wife ? yes im the west in uk..any suggestions as to where and how i find a wife or any going on these forums lol..

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