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  • #16
    Re: Feeling hopeless

    Originally posted by zeagirl View Post
    JazaikAllahukhair. What was it that helped you get over it? It is good to hear that it is possible to move on
    Wa iyyaki. Like I said, it just took time. It took me about a year to get over that person. I used to think I would never find anyone like her again. Now she means nothing to me, and it embarrasses me to even think about it.

    Maybe it will take less time for you, maybe it will take more. But eventually, in shaa Allah, you will heal, and you will be made a much stronger person because of it.

    You are in a better position than I was because you have the support of brothers and sisters on this forum. I don't think there's anything you can do right now to completely delete those feelings; all you can do is focus on pleasing Allah and being a better Muslim.

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    • #17
      Re: Feeling hopeless

      Alsalam alykom
      say this beautiful Dua'a

      (رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ )

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      • #18
        Re: Feeling hopeless

        Originally posted by Wael Bakr View Post
        Alsalam alykom
        say this beautiful Dua'a

        (رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ )
        JazaikAllahukhair. What does it mean may i ask?

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        • #19
          Re: Feeling hopeless

          Originally posted by zeagirl View Post
          I know I need to get my priorities straight abot what I want from a husband. I can't seem to get over this (my past thread) because I'm scared I won't find something close to it in terms of love. I'm scared that I won't be loved and i will be treated badly again and that I'll be a worker than a wife. I haven't seen many happy marriages throughout my life so that's why I'm scared. Does anyone have reassurance please. JazaikhAllahukhair
          Marriage is always uncertain.

          Even if you marry a great person , does not guarantee that the person would be great always. There are just no guarantees in life , yet we have to live and move on.

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          • #20
            Re: Feeling hopeless

            I feel very hopeless too.

            Only because i was betrayed by someone i trusted.

            I always feel IF ONLY he never wasted my time i could of found someone.

            its so hard to stay positive when you've been betrayed once.

            Can i ask something is it bad for me to want him to realise what he did was wrong???

            sometimes i dont understand ALLAHS plan for me :(

            I see him married and it reminds me of what i could of had but never got! :( :(

            please help me remain sain!

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            • #21
              Re: Feeling hopeless

              Originally posted by zeagirl View Post
              JazaikAllahukhair. What does it mean may i ask?
              This means in short:

              O Lord, I am of what was revealed to please and your riches to the poor that your Ngnini who except you

              O Lord, I am in need of what you gave me the best of

              And goodness means in which every Yes God money and a husband and home and food ... and Moses lacked food

              God called him up to give him food and you are my sisters of lacking anything of God's blessings and bounty calling him may God

              He sings the blessings and bounty

              And called this supplication at any time and without any number of mentions but not forget that there are times when supplication is answered

              And that God loves slave Allhouh
              :)

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              • #22
                Re: Feeling hopeless

                Originally posted by Wael Bakr View Post
                This means in short:

                O Lord, I am of what was revealed to please and your riches to the poor that your Ngnini who except you

                O Lord, I am in need of what you gave me the best of

                And goodness means in which every Yes God money and a husband and home and food ... and Moses lacked food

                God called him up to give him food and you are my sisters of lacking anything of God's blessings and bounty calling him may God

                He sings the blessings and bounty

                And called this supplication at any time and without any number of mentions but not forget that there are times when supplication is answered

                And that God loves slave Allhouh
                :)
                JazaikumAllahukhairan

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                • #23
                  Re: Feeling hopeless

                  Originally posted by zeagirl View Post
                  JazaikumAllahukhairan
                  فَسَقَىٰ لَهُمَا ثُمَّ تَوَلَّىٰ إِلَى الظِّلِّ فَقَالَ رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

                  So he watered (their flocks) for them; then he turned back to the shade, and said:"O my Lord! truly am I in (desperate) need of any good that Thou dost send me!"

                  (In case not aware, the du'a Musa (as) made just after assisting two women water their animals in an area crowded by men. He had fled Egypt at the time, leaving everything behind and was fearing for his life and without a home.)
                  Last edited by Fakhri; 12-05-16, 12:24 AM.
                  LAA ILAAHA ILLALLAH
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                  "And if you would count the graces of God, never could you be able to count them. Truly, God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Qur'aan 16:18)
                  NOTE: Please kindly do NOT rep my posts. (Jazaa'akumullah).

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                  • #24
                    Re: Feeling hopeless

                    Originally posted by Fakhri View Post
                    فَسَقَىٰ لَهُمَا ثُمَّ تَوَلَّىٰ إِلَى الظِّلِّ فَقَالَ رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنْزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ

                    So he watered (their flocks) for them; then he turned back to the shade, and said:"O my Lord! truly am I in (desperate) need of any good that Thou dost send me!"

                    (In case not aware, the du'a Musa (as) made just after assisting two women water their animals in an area crowded by men. He had fled Egypt at the time, leaving everything behind and was fearing for his life and without a home.)
                    Thanks for that. I really don't feel like I'm coping well. I want my free thinking time to be taken up by good thoughts and Stop sadness like this. It's getting emotionally draining and I want it to stop

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