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  • #16
    Re: met partner on internet

    Originally posted by missnadia View Post
    salam, what do you guys think abuot finding your partner on internet, such as facebook, chat?

    I know this is not the right way. but what if you come on chat without the intention to meet anyone, but only to kill time. and you meet someone online and he is a good Muslim boy. You talk a few months but still without any intentions and you finally tell what you tink about each other and want to married each other, because you feel that you ment to be together. Islam is hmdl good and everything else is also good. Would you married or would you still think of the way how you have met. and just stop. because everthing is mektab. and chat is not the way and i know talking without mahram is not good.

    He had no job because if he had we were now maybe made it officieel. He maybe wil have a job this week in sha allah and than we want to see each other for few minutes beacause i only know how his personality is i have never seen him. because we both dont want that. But i dont care how he looks and he also tells that.
    i really want to marry him because he is hmdl a good persoon and i know him almost 2 jaar now and we talk about everything, our idea's and our personality are the same. the only thing we dont know is how we look its like we are scared :p I'm now only think if allah forgive me and if is this mektab. because i really didn't wanted this. but i'm hmdl happy to have met him. i dont like to speek to guys in regulair day so i really dont know how i will met some one and i know that there are other ways but this is for me the best way to really know everthng about the person. And now i'm really sure that i am not talking to a catfish:p. We already talk about what we would do in the future if we are married etc.

    Sorry for my english i'm from a nother country

    i tried my best.
    You do not know his personality. You only know him through what you think about him in your mind using the words he presents on the screen. E.g. reading a book on the xyz may be so awesome for people because our imaginations are awesome, but when people see the movie xyz, they are disappointed.

    If you do not have an intention and keep talking, then shaytan will mess up your intentions. Get your wali involved if you guys are serious!
    What langauge do you speak? Use google translate if possible : )


    • #17
      Re: met partner on internet

      Let's just say when I hinted that I'm looking for potentials online because they can't see me and would know me personally, the real me blah blah there was an immediate family meeting and I was in a lot of trouble.. so basically they had a valid point and it's best to avoid such a route.
      I love you, cherish you and worship you,
      Guide me on your path to your janna,
      Unite me beside you My King and all mighty,



      • #18
        Re: met partner on internet

        Originally posted by ForeverMonotheist1 View Post
        the divorce part scares me to death, for a guy who is cold as ice.

        maybe the rate of divorce amongst cybercouples is very high?
        i dont think that had much to do with it, the first month of marriage he was the guy i met online, the guy i tought hed be, but i saw him change in front of my eyes, so its not as if he wasnt the guy i met online, he was, but also being a girl and falling in love is the dumbest thing we can do ( before nikah)
        simply because the love blinds ourselves to the reality, thats why a wali is most important wali wali wali wali wali
        يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

        O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

        Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21


        • #19
          Re: met partner on internet

          dangerous if you're not careful but also quite common nowadays

          i've heard of many successful relationships that were formed online and some that turned scary. only do it if you are wise, go in with your eyes wide open and stand your ground. a lot... A LOT of them will claim on matrimonial websites especially that they are looking for marriage - even taking the time to write out an impressive profile - but deep down most are just there for the obvious reasons. to find someone to do the nitty gritty with. if you want marriage only, make sure they know you are only there for marriage. any rude stuff and you'll walk. don't be quickly fooled by pics, anyone can post fake model pictures. and upon meeting TAKE SOMEONE WITH YOU!!! or meet in public place