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How long normally is the islamic "courtship"?

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    Re: How long normally is the islamic "courtship"?

    Originally posted by nonameakhi View Post
    Ok I know these days practicality dictates some situations but the whole months thing is a bit ridiculous

    These things should be done in days and even hours not months and years.

    Also courtship isn't the right word. Marriage is more a contract than what we made it into today and hence the struggles imo
    Mine was 6 months with a wali back and forth but it should have been longer I think. I clearly didn't ask enough or know enough before hand.

    The purpose in the length of time would be to have the wali ask the questions *you* wanted to ask not just his questions. And there could be a lot of those. It cannot be simply about if the family is good because some families might be perfect but the problems are in the individuals themselves.
    Last edited by ssh; 28-09-15, 05:29 PM.