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    How difficult is it to find a housewife?

  • #2
    Theres always arguments on this type of thread.
    I honestly dont think its very difficult. Would you want strictly housewife no work no school?(best option in my opinion) Or a jugular of them all?

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    • #3
      Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

      It isn't difficult

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      • #4
        Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

        If you earn a reasonable amount to cover the expenses of a family without the need for a dual income, and/or you are looking for a traditional wife, esp overseas; then fairly easy imo.

        If you're not financially well-off, and/or you want to have an educated wife who's a little bit modern, then it gets difficult.

        But idk, never had to look for a housewife so these are just my opinions.
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        [Surah Aali-'Imraan: V. 196]

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        • #5
          Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

          oh, no
          not you again . still looking for a housewife???
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          • #6
            Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

            I don't think it's that hard even in the west. yeah the females will be educated, that's good, but doesn't necesarily mean they'll be that eager to work after marriage. If someone's career driven or studied a specific degree or studied for a long time or just wants a job, yeah that's different. But aslong as the male is earning enough to financially support them, its no biggie. I dont think going to uni then not getting a job is a waste coz education is intrinsically valuable, not just for the outcome.

            Again some might think working part time is a good idea, so they have time to care for the house aswell. Just have this discussion before you're married n c what her expectations are. Coz especially when theres children its hard for a mum to work aswell I think, bt again that varies. An important thing to consider is some women like to work so they dont spend a lot of the day at home, because the same routine housechores and cooking etc can get a lil boring, as work can be productive. But then again see what else is on offer online or in the community so she doesnt get bored. For example a religious class/es she can take online or with other sisters, etc.
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            • #7
              Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

              Not difficult at all,infact it is very easy

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              • #8
                Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                A woman married to a house? Quite difficult I'm guessing.

                A homemaker is probably easier.

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                • #9
                  Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                  The challenge is finding a house!

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                  • #10
                    Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                    No I don't think so. Most of my married friends are housewives.

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                    • #11
                      Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                      Yo I'm curious, what is your phobia?
                      They say good things come to those who wait, so imma be at least an hour late

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                      • #12
                        Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                        You first have to provide the house....

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                        • #13
                          Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                          I mean, as long as you can provide a good life.. You have to: not be in debt, afford all your bills PLUS hers, be able to support a child (if you want kids), have a house, etc.
                          It's not enough to WANT one, you have to be able to handle and afford it.
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                          • #14
                            Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                            Its not difficult , but a house wife will be better than working wife is not always the case.

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                            • #15
                              Re: how difficult is it to find a housewife?

                              I recently moved to France a few months ago so as of now I am a housewife though I do have a university degree. My husband does earn alot of money and we are quite well off so I'm not desperate to work though I do want to work maybe not now because I want to help my kids settle into France with school and all the other stuff.

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