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Is it good for a husband to be emotional in a marriage?

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  • #46
    Re: Is it good for a husband to be emotional in a marriage?

    Originally posted by Musbah View Post
    You don't want to show a lot of emotional weakness to a woman. She will manipulate you to her advantage. The best way to deal with women today is to come off as indifferent like you could care less one way or another and then those mind games won't work with you.
    I don't think that's a good idea...that seems cold
    Nothing is impossible with Allah

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    • #47
      Re: Is it good for a husband to be emotional in a marriage?

      Originally posted by faatima18 View Post
      well if emotional means crying at stupid things, being an embarrassment by crying at places like weddings (seen it happen), not being able to control your tongue/saying stupid things, lashing out, not being able to make decisions and being an overall mess then no that is not a good thing.
      the woman in the marriage is already the emotional one naturally, the man needs to have his emotions under control. you can't have two emotional people
      Hmm I agree. I don't mind if he's emotional and gets emotional over things most people would, but not if it's over the top...I wouldn't feel safe or secure with him.
      Nothing is impossible with Allah

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      • #48
        Re: Is it good for a husband to be emotional in a marriage?

        "Brothers be a man that stands in front but also stands beside her"

        There's a reason why a man is the leader of the household. Perhap's man is more logical and can make more rational decisions under emotion. Allahu alim, but righteous sisters know and appreciate this. So brothers, be righteous leaders inshaAllah.

        With respect, women are interesting creatures and very emotionally powerful. When she confides in you, then listen to her. Support her. A woman likes to feel secure and protected. And yes there will be times sisters albeit less, when the husband will require emotional comfort. It happened to the best of men (saw), so who are we to deny this.

        “Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous." [Quran 25:74]
        God has created Angels with reason but having no desires; animals with desires but no reason and man with both reason and desires. Therefore, if one’s reason is stronger than his desires, he is like an Angel,
        while if his desires are stronger than his reason, he is like an animal.

        - Ibn Al-Qayyim


        وَاسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلَاةِ

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        • #49
          Re: Is it good for a husband to be emotional in a marriage?

          :wswrwb:

          Yes, so long as he is not hysterical. Prophet Muhammad [peace be upon him] often wept, expressed love towards his relatives, followers and wives, laughed, got angry and expressed fear. He's the ultimate role model that we are called to follow. He expressed many different kinds of emotions and was a terrific husband.
          "Wert thou to follow the common run of those on earth, they will lead thee away from the way of Allah. They follow nothing but conjecture: they do nothing but lie." (surah 6:116)

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          • #50
            Re: Is it good for a husband to be emotional in a marriage?

            Originally posted by LondonGal View Post
            Great advice! playing mind games in a grown up mature relationship.
            Oh cmon. All women do it. Subconsciously atleast
            "The duty of the man who investigates the writings of scientists, if learning the truth is his goal, is to make himself an enemy of all that he reads, and,.. attack it from every side. He should also suspect himself as he performs his critical examination of it, so that he may avoid falling into either prejudice or leniency."
            -Alhazen Ibn Al-Haythem

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