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  • Sisters? your best friend?

    :salams:

    So if your best friends husband passed away/ or was divorced (deserted by her X) and you was happily married. You see that she is trying her best to raise her 2 kids, getting remarried and living life but she is struggling because there is only so much anyone can do for her including her family. She is

    Would you recommend her to be your co-wife and share your husband?
    50
    Yes
    28.00%
    14
    No
    72.00%
    36
    Believe none of what you hear, and only half of what you see.

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    Re: Sisters? your best friend?

    :wswrwb:

    I don't have a best friend and not married but ignoring those two facts, the answer would probably be a no.

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      Re: Sisters? your best friend?

      Originally posted by InTheBegining View Post
      :salams:

      So if your best friends husband passed away/ or was divorced (deserted by her X) and you was happily married. You see that she is trying her best to raise her 2 kids, getting remarried and living life but she is struggling because there is only so much anyone can do for her including her family. She is

      Would you recommend her to be your co-wife and share your husband?

      Feels like a riddle to get us.

      I feel the friendship will probably suffer when two friends become co-wives.

      I would ask my husband to find a brother, not himself!
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      • #4
        Sisters? your best friend?

        aah tough questiion
        I honestly don't know what I'll do
        "O you who are patient! Bear a little, just a little more remains

        Enter your emotion and it gives you a dua!

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        • #5
          Re: Sisters? your best friend?

          No I wouldn't share my husband. But I would do my best to find a good one for her.
          Forgiving others is not a weakness.
          It takes a strong person to forgive.

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          • #6
            Re: Sisters? your best friend?

            No because this is someone I care deeply about, I wouldn't want jealousy or resentment to get in the way of our long friendship.

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            • #7
              Re: Sisters? your best friend?

              good question, interesting...

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              • #8
                Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                Interesting indeed, most if not all sisters have said no - should have had a poll.
                My Lord sanctify my flawed heart
                As You have sanctified Your house,
                Make my heart as protected and as honoured
                In which permission of entry
                Is only granted to a few,
                Please Allah, allow my heart
                To be preserved only for You.



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                It hurts, to watch you leave so soon,
                when I don't know, if I will ever see you again
                In Jannah, we will meet :love:


                If I have ever offended, hurt or insulted you, forgive me for the sake of Allah سبحانه وتعالى‎

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                • #9
                  Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                  You are basically asking for trouble
                  Gender: Male

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                  • #10
                    Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                    Originally posted by Bindipper View Post
                    You are basically asking for trouble
                    Brothers like to do these social experiments once in a while.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                      Originally posted by مسلمة View Post
                      Brothers like to do these social experiments once in a while.
                      I was talking about the women
                      Gender: Male

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                        • #13
                          Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                          I don't have a best friend, sad times
                          :sub: wabihamdihi:sub:hiladheem

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                          • #14
                            Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                            Originally posted by Bindipper View Post
                            I was talking about the women
                            Erm okay. Should we lie instead?

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                            • #15
                              Re: Sisters? your best friend?

                              Originally posted by مسلمة View Post
                              Erm okay. Should we lie instead?
                              what?

                              I meant if you offer to share your husband with your best friend, you are asking for trouble. Should have made it clearer.
                              Gender: Male

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