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    Why do some people say in marriage that you will regret getting married.
    https://www.ummah.com/forum/forum/lo...-qur-an-courseI am just a simple nomad.

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  • #2
    Re: You'll Regret It

    Because they did not marry the right person or they where not the right spouse. I got married for 3 years and I dont not regret it though it had ended...
    Last edited by insann; 17-01-15, 06:22 PM.
    Sorry I dont carry a conversation nor an argument with a sister. I just put my point of view in general for everybody and it is up to you to take it or leave it.

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    • #3
      Re: You'll Regret It

      I don't know, I'm not married.

      But I think it's because some people wake up from their fantasies and realize the wife will nag, talk/bring up all sorts of things, that she is not perfect [then again aren't we all not?], and be consumed with responsibilities and tasks, differences in opinion etc. The fantasy part is only here and there. Marriage isn't all that it is cut out be.

      Some people live in the fantasy, but I try not to. I've fantasized enough! :)
      Last edited by orient3; 17-01-15, 06:49 PM.

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      • #4
        Re: You'll Regret It

        Because they compare their marriage/spouse, either to other people's or to an idealised construct they had before or in the early days of the marriage
        Last edited by Sabros; 17-01-15, 07:52 PM.

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        • #5
          Re: You'll Regret It

          Depends upon if you marry the wrong person but its all qadr Allah
          82. Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, "be", and it is! 83. So glory to Him in Whose hands is the dominion of all things: and to Him will you be all brought back. Quran surah 36: Ya-sin

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          • #6
            Re: You'll Regret It

            It's hard work, a lot of effort is required.

            I'm sorry akhi but you will even have to share food with her. No more 'me' it's gonna be about her as well. That strawberry milkshake? yes that too, you'll probably find it missing because she drank it all.

            Oh my goodness, the nagging, the complaining, the list is endless. And on top of that the money problems. If she's the materialistic type, she'll always want more, more bags, more make up, more dresses. MORE, MORE. You'll lose hair bro.

            All these talk is giving me a headache. Compromise 'innit'? I'm sorry I was only kidding above.

            You won't regret marriage if you treat her right and if she is compatible with you and knows her role towards as the wife. Don't worry you'll be fine, just finish education, get a good job. Save some cash for the mahr (lol kidding), and you'll be sorted ma boy.

            And make dua, I've noticed all these marriage business is stressing you out? Study about marriage in Islam, prepare yourself, don't expect too much. Be prepared for the challenges that wait for you after marriage. Marriage is also a blessing.

            Enjoy single life, use your youth wisely :insha: time is precious, after marriage you'll have a commitment to your family. Your a male, you can go to places without having someone with you.

            Learn, learn, and learn.

            :jkk:
            'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

            So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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            • #7
              Re: You'll Regret It

              the unhappy people talk...happy people are too busy being happy to talk at all.
              "The duty of the man who investigates the writings of scientists, if learning the truth is his goal, is to make himself an enemy of all that he reads, and,.. attack it from every side. He should also suspect himself as he performs his critical examination of it, so that he may avoid falling into either prejudice or leniency."
              -Alhazen Ibn Al-Haythem

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              • #8
                Re: You'll Regret It

                Nah don't regret it all alhamdulillah
                ▪️••• 〰 Say what you wish in abuse of me, for my silence towards the idiot is indeed an answer. I am not at a loss for a response, but rather it does not befit the lion to answer the dogs. 〰 •••▪️

                ~ IMAM SHAFI'I RH

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                • #9
                  Re: You'll Regret It

                  Originally posted by Kiro View Post
                  Why do some people say in marriage that you will regret getting married.
                  Because people are looking for jannah in marriage,and when they get married,and they dont find jannah,then they cry,and then they warn others...I feel sorry for them.

                  Once upon a time,I was trying to find my Jannah,in a Mercedes...

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                  • #10
                    Re: You'll Regret It

                    Shaadi Barbaadi culture is taking over.

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                    • #11
                      Re: You'll Regret It

                      Originally posted by Kiro View Post
                      Why do some people say in marriage that you will regret getting married.
                      Let me tell you something 2 off my aunties and my mum all had a horrible first marriages but never have they once said to their children you wil regret it. They just make dua for us that we will meet someone that will make us happy. Nobody says such thing
                      Ya Allah,
                      Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
                      "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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                      • #12
                        Re: You'll Regret It

                        Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                        It's hard work, a lot of effort is required.

                        I'm sorry akhi but you will even have to share food with her. No more 'me' it's gonna be about her as well. That strawberry milkshake? yes that too, you'll probably find it missing because she drank it all.

                        :jkk:
                        Loooll am I the only one who thinks this is hilarious
                        I'm on a strict time management regiment and have to limit my time online. Therefore I have to reply selectively. Please don't be offended if I ignore your questions. :jkk:

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                        • #13
                          Re: You'll Regret It

                          Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                          It's hard work, a lot of effort is required.

                          I'm sorry akhi but you will even have to share food with her. No more 'me' it's gonna be about her as well. That strawberry milkshake? yes that too, you'll probably find it missing because she drank it all.

                          Oh my goodness, the nagging, the complaining, the list is endless. And on top of that the money problems. If she's the materialistic type, she'll always want more, more bags, more make up, more dresses. MORE, MORE. You'll lose hair bro.

                          All these talk is giving me a headache. Compromise 'innit'? I'm sorry I was only kidding above.

                          You won't regret marriage if you treat her right and if she is compatible with you and knows her role towards as the wife. Don't worry you'll be fine, just finish education, get a good job. Save some cash for the mahr (lol kidding), and you'll be sorted ma boy.

                          And make dua, I've noticed all these marriage business is stressing you out? Study about marriage in Islam, prepare yourself, don't expect too much. Be prepared for the challenges that wait for you after marriage. Marriage is also a blessing.

                          Enjoy single life, use your youth wisely :insha: time is precious, after marriage you'll have a commitment to your family. Your a male, you can go to places without having someone with you.

                          Learn, learn, and learn.

                          :jkk:
                          hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha giggles
                          Humiliating people in the name of religion is the practice of someone deprived of the first fruit of religion, humility.-Nouman Ali Khan

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                          • #14
                            Re: You'll Regret It

                            Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                            It's hard work, a lot of effort is required.

                            I'm sorry akhi but you will even have to share food with her. No more 'me' it's gonna be about her as well. That strawberry milkshake? yes that too, you'll probably find it missing because she drank it all.

                            :jkk:
                            I'm not sacrificing my strawberry milk. Virgin for life!
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