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  • If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

    Okay this might be a controversial subject, but something that seems to occur on a more frequent level ( compared to several decades ago). I have heard quite a few times, that if a husband cheats on his wife, that the woman should have sabr and try to save her marriage. But the opposite with men ( thus, he is not a real man if he stays with his wife). Quite a few people ( mostly women) tend to stay with their spouse.

    So my question to you is, if your spouse would cheat would you stay with him or her?
    For instance: Would your answer change if that person seems genuine about her/his regret or if that person admits it to you? Would your answer depend on the level of cheating? For instance, contact rather than intercourse. Once rather than on a longer time level. Would you answer depend on if you have children together.
    Last edited by pallas; 14-01-15, 08:57 PM.
    Allahumma ighfir lil muslimeena wal-muslimaat, wal-mu'mineena wal-mu'minaat, al-ahyaa'i minhom wal-amwat
    If God grants me life, I shall see to it that even the lonely shepherd in the mountains of San’a shall have his share in the wealth of the community
    Umar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb

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    Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

    Trust would be killed. Those hollow shells of marriage as a result just sucks the life out of the one who was faithful. I wouldn't recommend in the majority of cases that the one who was cheated on should stay.
    Fabi-ayyiala -i rabbikuma tukaththibani
    Then which of the favors of your Lord will ye deny?
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr8DR8frP_s

    You are not here just to fill space or to be a background character in someone else's movie. Consider this: nothing would be the same if you did not exist. Every place you have ever been and everyone you have ever spoken to would be different without you. We are all connected, and we are all affected by the decisions and even the existence of those around us.

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    • #3
      Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

      No I wouldn't stay

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      • #4
        Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

        Cheating is the worst insult a spouse can give to his partner. It implies you weren't enough for him. And you would never be able to trust him again.
        I guess it would depend on how much I care about him
        Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.

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        • #5
          Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

          Originally posted by missmirah02 View Post
          No I wouldn't stay
          Not in any circumstances?
          Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.

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          • #6
            Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

            Originally posted by -qed- View Post
            Not in any circumstances?
            No

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            • #7
              Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

              i think everyone is going to say they wouldn't stay,
              but in reality some peeps stick together due to the situation with kids etc and obviously try to make it work...

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              • #8
                Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

                No I wouldn't. In fact, I usually hate anybody staying with an adulterer whether man or woman.

                May Allah protect us from marrying such disgusting individuals. Ameen.
                I write novels for posts. Beware. :mujahida:

                Ummah Forum seems pretty black and white. Was thinking of offering Skittles as Dawah to introduce a rainbow.

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                • #9
                  Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

                  I don't even know the answer really.
                  Okay :)

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                  • #10
                    Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

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                    • #11
                      Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

                      Originally posted by Ria View Post
                      I don't even know the answer really.
                      you'll be too busy washing dishes lool

                      Originally posted by Joyous_muslimah View Post
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                      and you dont even want to get married lool

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                      • #12
                        Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

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                        • #13
                          Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

                          Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
                          you'll be too busy washing dishes lool



                          and you dont even want to get married lool



                          40 % chance i might lool. 100% chance i'd leave them if they cheated though :P
                          Last edited by Joyous_muslimah; 14-01-15, 09:11 PM.

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                          • #14
                            Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

                            Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
                            you'll be too busy washing dishes lool
                            Haha lol

                            With my new washing up liquid
                            Okay :)

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                            • #15
                              Re: If your spouse cheated, would you stay with him/her?

                              No.

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