Small Wedding suggestions

[Constant Hope]

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Does that 10k include everything
Food n venue
If you had a wedding n walima in one it is cheaper
Quite nikah in the home n then a joint party

[Simply_Logical]

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yea it should defo suffice...

[GoogleSlayer]

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interesting!
:1popcorn:

[nonameakhi]

[nonameakhi]

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[Constant Hope]

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I'm thinking of all my options to keep things on a small scale as I won't have very many people from my own side tbh. I know you gave the example of Ali (ra) saying that, but usually people do things faster than you might be able to unless you had an idea in advance which is why I chose to ask about it. Back then it wasn't as 'complicated'. Nikah, small walima. Job done. Now we got all this extra crap that pretty much is de facto expected to be done.

So I just want to get it done on the value side without compromising quality.

[Umm.eesa]

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10K in Indonesia is EXPENSIVE!!!

That was the cheapest i ge but still good quality of food n tent cz fren. It's in sr(saudi riyal) not usd or gbp.

[nonameakhi]

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[Simply_Logical]

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Akhie honestly it isn't that difficult. I did my own with no support and did my sisters virtually alone as family are usless

thats true when it comes to making arrangements lol

[IslamPrevails]

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Doing it from scratch also has its own problems as you have to hire crockery, cutlery, tables, chairs and many other things. It is a lot of work.

Check with hotels or restaurants. Maybe you can get a good deal.

[nonameakhi]

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thats true when it comes to making arrangements lol

LOL

don't get me wrong they are happy with the bits they like, so cloths shopping and the frivolous stuff like what hair do to get, its the practicalities ensuring hall is booked and there are entrances and letting in the people and overseeing the mundane bits

[Simply_Logical]

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LOL

don't get me wrong they are happy with the bits they like, so cloths shopping and the frivolous stuff like what hair do to get, its the practicalities ensuring hall is booked and there are entrances and letting in the people and overseeing the mundane bits

the worst thing is no one wants to know when helping but on the wedding day everyone is your best friend lol

[nonameakhi]

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Doing it from scratch also has its own problems as you have to hire crockery, cutlery, tables, chairs and many other things. It is a lot of work.

Check with hotels or restaurants. Maybe you can get a good deal.

Most places who do catering will provide this, halls who have done this regularly will do too

Generally the throw away stuff is the best and these days they have that in so many colours and designs so you are not restricted to white plastic/paper that falls apart

[nonameakhi]

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the worst thing is no one wants to know when helping but on the wedding day everyone is your best friend lol

Oh on the wedding day of my sister I had to throw them out of the kitchen and serving areas. Not just family but friends of the bride and groom looking to earn points by saying ''look I helped''

Its bad enough without someone coming in and trying to completely change what you have organised

Best was at a wedding once a lad accepted the advice of an uncle and it fell apart. Afterwards when asked what happened the uncle said I only advised you didn't have to listen

I listen then do my own thing and have no problem saying thankyou but get out

[Constant Hope]

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Insha'Allah know who to message for advice now lol. Yeah, maybe when it comes to actually planning it will be fine :up: