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  • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

    Originally posted by orientalists View Post
    It works sometimes though.

    You people are dull. Why wait for something that is not that great anyways [marriage]?

    I am glad I am not a part of this forum anymore to hear the same things. It's all full of depression, and back and forth nonsense, and tameness that it's sickening sometimes. I'd rather live, than to live dead like you and like others. Call it foolish, call it whatever.
    Its like U went in 180deg in opp direction & started shooting ..... :bangbang:


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    • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

      [QUOTE=Simply_Logical;6234426]talk about letting her down gently lol[/
      Hahahahahahah

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      • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

        I could have no respect for a girl who does this. Or a guy for that matter.

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        • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

          Originally posted by UmarUK View Post
          I could have no respect for a girl who does this. Or a guy for that matter.
          So you would not approach a girl in public


          oops just saw ur edit
          Okay :)

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          • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

            Originally posted by Ria View Post
            So you would not approach a girl in public
            It's not in natural fitrah of a woman to approach any joe on street for their hand in mariage.

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            • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

              Originally posted by Umar_ View Post
              It's not in natural fitrah of a woman to approach any joe on street for their hand in mariage.
              Yh i guess so
              Okay :)

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              • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                I would agree with many posts and say no. You don't know this guy and you want to ask him marriage. You are either very trusting or have alot of guts. The main reason I don't think it's not a good idea..Firstly it might not be safe talking the guy, would your parents be happy approaching a guy alone etc etc. There are so many halal ways to look ..mosques, through friends and family, marriage "aunties" and online. At all of these a wali should be in involved. Even if a woman has no wali; these other methods should be used first.
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                • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                  Originally posted by orientalists View Post
                  It works sometimes though.

                  You people are dull. Why wait for something that is not that great anyways [marriage]?

                  I am glad I am not a part of this forum anymore to hear the same things. It's all full of depression, and back and forth nonsense, and tameness that it's sickening sometimes. I'd rather live, than to live dead like you and like others. Call it foolish, call it whatever.
                  Stop being horrible
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                  • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                    Originally posted by UmarUK View Post
                    I could have no respect for a girl who does this. Or a guy for that matter.
                    Why do you think it is so wrong of a person to do this?
                    :sub: wabihamdihi:sub:hiladheem

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                    • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                      Originally posted by rainbow*~ View Post
                      Why do you think it is so wrong of a person to do this?
                      Unlady like thing to do. No class. If you're interested get someone else to make the move.

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                      • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                        Originally posted by Umar_ View Post
                        Unlady like thing to do. No class. If you're interested get someone else to make the move.
                        I casually showed interested in a brother (it was a comment in passing) and a mutual friend thought they'd play matchmaker (I don't actually know what they said to him), and the guy approached me, showed he was interested, but didn't have the guts to say anything :/....I'm thinking that makes me look class less too then, cz the mutual friend showed interest from my side :/ ftr I didn't say nothing either.
                        :sub: wabihamdihi:sub:hiladheem

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                        • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                          Approached showing interest, But did'nt say anything at all? was it a stare contest?

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                          • Re: Is it okay to approach a guy in public or on the streets

                            -_-
                            Last edited by DaughterOfAdam; 30-12-14, 11:45 PM.

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