things you wish you'd done before marriage

[Rouz]

:salams

What do you wish you'd done before marriage (this could be both islamicaly and worldly things) ..for example do you wish you'd learnt about something in particular? Memorised more qurann? Spent more time with family?

Just curious as I'd like to learn from others.

[GoogleSlayer]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

to see the world

[chameleon]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

:salams

What do you wish you'd done before marriage (this could be both islamicaly and worldly things) ..for example do you wish you'd learnt about something in particular? Memorised more qurann? Spent more time with family?

Just curious as I'd like to learn from others.

Not really to be honest. I always wanted to travel, and have actually seen more of the world since marrying and having children. Most of the time all of them in tow, other times solo on business or with friends. Have had some flashy cars since getting married cos I was older and so could afford the insurance. Not sure if that's helpful?

[Plumeria]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

Finish my degree

[Kya]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

Spent money on good things in life. Before marriage I saved saved saved because I didn't know who I was going to get married to & what my financial condition will be. So I stayed away from nicer things in life. Now after marriage, although I still get to keep my earning, I feel bad buying expensive because its not part of my habit.

Estabilished good habits! I was always trying to be better person (my productive, regular quran study, regular fasting, workout, study..etc). I never established a habit. After marriage many of those fell thru the crack easily. Had they been part of my life I would have kept at it. Workout went first and I gained 10lb :(

Experimented with cooking more. I tried few safe dish & knew how to make them. But experimenting would have been fun. Now at inlaws I am afraid to experiment in fear of it turning bad & being judged.

[ugabs]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

And how are these things not doable after marriage?

I would include that in the title as well...

[علي]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

I wish I got married before I got married. I think 14 years old woulda been good.

[Ria]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

I wish I got married before I got married. I think 14 years old woulda been good.

If you live in the west that would not be possible

[Aloo]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

wish i had saved up more money so i wouldn't be struggling like i have been these many years.

[leela]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

Only one thing- I wish I'd dyed my hair purple before marriage.

[Rouz]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

wish i had saved up more money so i wouldn't be struggling like i have been these many years.

May Allah swt ease your situation and increase your rizq and place barakah in it

[firestar101]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

Edited

[Musicisme656]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

I wish I got married before I got married. I think 14 years old woulda been good.

Responsibilities like that at 14? Isn't that a bit much?

[Musicisme656]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

I wan't to buy a Lamborghini Aventador and be rich/successful before I get married. I'm not eager to get married anyways so I want to do everything I can before I get married.

[winterfever]

Re: things you wish you'd done before marriage

learn cooking ( i hv learnt a lot .... some dishes r left)
be expert in stiching.'
lose weight and belly fat.( lost weight bt not much)

improve my ikhlaq. patience. personality( i hv done much of it)

and learn to grow plants

complete my qaza rozay
and nawafil ( mannat)