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    Can you fall in love in force marriages?

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    Re: Can you fall in love in force marriages?

    Love isn't something you "choose" to happen. You can't program yourself to love someone.

    What does happen more often is that people who spend more time with each other, and are comfortable with one another, do end up developing feelings which can be described as love. This is why Islam has strict gender segregation rules with non-mahram.
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      Re: Can you fall in love in force marriages?

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      Last edited by liya1; 05-09-15, 01:41 AM.
      The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "You must be gentle. Verily, gentleness is not in anything except that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from anything except that it disgraces it."

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        Re: Can you fall in love in force marriages?

        Agree with Perseveranze,
        in arranged marriage you might not know the person but you can just as well fall in love with them as with anyone else. And the thing is that even 2 people who don't consider each other very attractive will develop feelings for each other when they spend time together. I am a first hand witness to it. That person was about to get married and I could have ruined it, we just became too close. Even if you don't have any such intentions, it just happens.

        Obviously if one of them is unpleasant person, it doesn't happen.

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          Re: Can you fall in love in force marriages?

          Love is from allah. It has nothing to do with us. If Allah puts mercy and love between 2 people then that is because Allah has the power to do so and because we ask Allah to instill that between our hearts. Whether a that's love or arranged marriage or whatever- all in Allah's control :love:
          *~* Learn Patience from Aasiyah (RA); Loyalty from Khadhija (RA); Sincerity from Aisha (RA) and Steadfastness from Fatima (RA).*~*

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