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  • #16
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    If it was in London I might have been willing to watsapp some people about it

    Don't know anyone in Birmingham

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    • #17
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      3rd January in Bham any good guys?

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      • #18
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        Lol, I knew it wouldn't be a mixed bengali/pakistani event.

        No offence to our Bengali brothers and sisters, but your ethnic group is very introverted and 'outside' marriage is a big taboo. Bengali culture is even more jahil than indian/pakistani in that respect.
        I write novels for posts. Beware. :mujahida:

        Ummah Forum seems pretty black and white. Was thinking of offering Skittles as Dawah to introduce a rainbow.

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        • #19
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          Originally posted by Constant Hope View Post
          Lol, I knew it wouldn't be a mixed bengali/pakistani event.

          No offence to our Bengali brothers and sisters, but your ethnic group is very introverted and 'outside' marriage is a big taboo. Bengali culture is even more jahil than indian/pakistani in that respect.


          Errrr I thought that was also you pakistani
          Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
          __________________________________________________ _____________________________
          If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

          You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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          • #20
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            Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
            Errrr I thought that was also you pakistani
            I am Pakistani. That not clear in my post? Don't get me wrong, Indian/Pakistani culture is very jahil too, but Bengali folks are still behind in terms of even letting children marry outside their own ethnic group. Pakistanis in that respect have become more open.
            I write novels for posts. Beware. :mujahida:

            Ummah Forum seems pretty black and white. Was thinking of offering Skittles as Dawah to introduce a rainbow.

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            • #21
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              Originally posted by Constant Hope View Post
              I am Pakistani. That not clear in my post? Don't get me wrong, Indian/Pakistani culture is very jahil too, but Bengali folks are still behind in terms of even letting children marry outside their own ethnic group. Pakistanis in that respect have become more open.
              funny coz i know of many mixed race marriages ANd make dua pls we are just going to see a pakistani girl for my brother
              Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
              __________________________________________________ _____________________________
              If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

              You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



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              • #22
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                Bengali and Pakistani sitting in a tree Kay Eye Ess Ess Eye En Gee.


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                • #23
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                  People no debating please, these are events solely for the purpose of marriage, if people want to marry the same ethnicity then fine. Allah hu Alim

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                  • #24
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                    Bham

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                    • #25
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                      Muslims in the UK are already 3rd generation. There is more that unites them than divides them.

                      I don't believe that nationalistic/tribal boundaries are reinforced. We are all Muslims, and culturally we are all similar now because we been in UK for 3 generations mostly.

                      Tribalism needs to be broken down, not reinforced.

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                      • #26
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                        Originally posted by Minzur View Post
                        Muslims in the UK are already 3rd generation. There is more that unites them than divides them.
                        This is what I think. If you've been born and raised in the same country, you're probably not that different culturally. Infact, I think you're probably likely to have more in common with someone of a different ethnicity to you but who was born and raised in the UK than someone who is the same ethnicity as you but is from back 'home'. Unless for some reason you're really really into your culture lol.

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                        • #27
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                          so if, for example, a white brother snuck in, will you escort him out?
                          Fabi-ayyiala -i rabbikuma tukaththibani
                          Then which of the favors of your Lord will ye deny?
                          http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr8DR8frP_s

                          You are not here just to fill space or to be a background character in someone else's movie. Consider this: nothing would be the same if you did not exist. Every place you have ever been and everyone you have ever spoken to would be different without you. We are all connected, and we are all affected by the decisions and even the existence of those around us.

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                          • #28
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                            Originally posted by nousername View Post
                            so if, for example, a white brother snuck in, will you escort him out?

                            No all the sisters will be like SALAm alaykum
                            Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Donít ruin your happiness with worry, and donít ruin your mind with pessimism. Donít ruin your success with deception and donít ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Donít ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
                            __________________________________________________ _____________________________
                            If you think about your situation, you will find that Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) has given you things without asking, so have trust in Allaah (سبحانه وتعالى) that He doesnít prevent anything you want except there is goodness for you.

                            You could be sleeping and the doors of the heavens are being opened with duaías being made on your behalf, SubhanAllaah: perhaps from someone poor whom you helped, or someone sad whom you brought joy, or someone passing by and you smiled at him, or someone in distress and you removed it.. so donít ever underestimate any good deeds."



                            please donate to the Ummah forum sadaqa jariya project. Click on the link for for more information, and to make a donation- https://www.justgiving.com/sadaqah-jariyah-project/

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                            • #29
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                              I'm a British Algerian with a good job and education. You gonna call security on me?

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                              • #30
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                                Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
                                This is what I think. If you've been born and raised in the same country, you're probably not that different culturally. Infact, I think you're probably likely to have more in common with someone of a different ethnicity to you but who was born and raised in the UK than someone who is the same ethnicity as you but is from back 'home'. Unless for some reason you're really really into your culture lol.
                                True 100%

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