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  • #16
    Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

    yeah, several sadly

    heard of a guy an old school friend married, he married her on the rebound. had a long term girlfriend, they broke up, he got a marriage offer and because the woman (my friend) is pretty and of the same caste he marries her but then the ex girlfriend is now back on the scene, its not entirely certain whether he has cheated with her or not (it has been speculated) but the saddest thing is that he seems to forget which woman is his wife and is always taking his ex girlfriends side or chasing after her or always trying to keep her calm than keep his wife happy, everyone is telling her to get out of this marriage, last i heard she is still with him

    and one girl i heard of, had a boyfriend, doesn't work out, so married someone else because of family pressures and treats him like crap obviously, just uses him, insults him and constantly compares him to her ex (yeah she says it to his face). they're still together too, sadly he actually likes her and wants to make it work

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    • #17
      Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

      The above is sad. I would hate it if my wife had a previous boyfriend as I would worry if she compared me constantly with him and if she was thinking about him
      Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
      ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

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      • #18
        Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

        Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
        I know of a wedding where the groom brought the bride Bach to her parents house next day coz apparently ahe spent all evening talking to her ex and he found out
        Loooooooooooooooooooool OMG
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        • #19
          Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

          Moral of the story: get over your ex before you get married.
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          • #20
            Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

            Some of these posts are really fear-inducing. It's better to ask potentials about their past and be called a judgemental jerk than to be all PC "if God forgives them yadda yadda" and turn into someone's emotional tampon.

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            • #21
              Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
              Moral of the story: get over your ex before you get married.
              Correction... don't have an 'ex' in the first place

              اللهُمَّ أَعِزَّ الإِسْلامَ وَالمُسْلِمِينَ

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              • #22
                Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                Originally posted by The Awakening View Post
                Correction... don't have an 'ex' in the first place

                If you have one....
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                • #23
                  Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                  This is a great thread to read if you want to increase your paranoia regarding marriage.
                  If you have any questions feel free to PM me!

                  Humililty, Sincerity, and the quest for Truth. There is no purpose in life but to seek the pleasure of Allah.
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                  • #24
                    Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                    Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                    I know of a wedding where the groom brought the bride Bach to her parents house next day coz apparently ahe spent all evening talking to her ex and he found out
                    Not helping

                    One of my biggest fears tbh - I could take multiple wives but never illegitimate relationships and comparisons like that :|
                    My Lord sanctify my flawed heart
                    As You have sanctified Your house,
                    Make my heart as protected and as honoured
                    In which permission of entry
                    Is only granted to a few,
                    Please Allah, allow my heart
                    To be preserved only for You.



                    ---


                    It hurts, to watch you leave so soon,
                    when I don't know, if I will ever see you again
                    In Jannah, we will meet :love:


                    If I have ever offended, hurt or insulted you, forgive me for the sake of Allah سبحانه وتعالى‎

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                    • #25
                      Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                      Originally posted by ss91 View Post
                      you guys are lucky you dont live in America. its way worse here.

                      idk what I'm gona do.

                      worse comes to worse. im gona become a monk and live in the mountains
                      With 55% marriages ending up in divorce, its not surprising aint it....

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                      • #26
                        Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                        Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
                        Moral of the story: get over your ex before you get married.
                        Don't marry someone with a past....!!
                        I would feel disgusted to think my wife has been with someone... :vomit:

                        For men its a entirely different feeling... From my experience women tend to ignore the fact that man has had GF's or if he has committed zona.
                        All he has to say "I have repented" ...and girls being emotional creature buy the story.... 95% of times.

                        Remaining 5% are rare to find...

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                        • #27
                          Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                          I would love to think this doesn't happen to my brothers and sisters. It sounds like scenes from Hollywood movies. I hope that our generation changes this.
                          Ya Allah,
                          Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
                          "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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                          • #28
                            Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                            Originally posted by Asma28 View Post
                            yeah, several sadly

                            heard of a guy an old school friend married, he married her on the rebound. had a long term girlfriend, they broke up, he got a marriage offer and because the woman (my friend) is pretty and of the same caste he marries her but then the ex girlfriend is now back on the scene, its not entirely certain whether he has cheated with her or not (it has been speculated) but the saddest thing is that he seems to forget which woman is his wife and is always taking his ex girlfriends side or chasing after her or always trying to keep her calm than keep his wife happy, everyone is telling her to get out of this marriage, last i heard she is still with him

                            and one girl i heard of, had a boyfriend, doesn't work out, so married someone else because of family pressures and treats him like crap obviously, just uses him, insults him and constantly compares him to her ex (yeah she says it to his face). they're still together too, sadly he actually likes her and wants to make it work
                            thats because the first love is always the strongest. for both the guy and the girl.

                            hence why you always hear that when someone's ex comes to town they end up "hooking up"

                            people dont simply forget about their "ex" which is why its such a scary thought, marrying someone who has had pre-marital relations.

                            you will never be their "number 1"

                            ahhh gotta love this fear mongering thread.....but its reality
                            Last edited by ss91; 21-11-14, 05:09 PM.
                            "The duty of the man who investigates the writings of scientists, if learning the truth is his goal, is to make himself an enemy of all that he reads, and,.. attack it from every side. He should also suspect himself as he performs his critical examination of it, so that he may avoid falling into either prejudice or leniency."
                            -Alhazen Ibn Al-Haythem

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                            • #29
                              Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                              Originally posted by Revertbrother View Post
                              Don't marry someone with a past....!!
                              I would feel disgusted to think my wife has been with someone... :vomit:

                              For men its a entirely different feeling... From my experience women tend to ignore the fact that man has had GF's or if he has committed zona.
                              All he has to say "I have repented" ...and girls being emotional creature buy the story.... 95% of times.

                              Remaining 5% are rare to find...
                              i think thats cuz many girls can look beyond that and think about the children and just suck it up. for men...thats not the case.
                              "The duty of the man who investigates the writings of scientists, if learning the truth is his goal, is to make himself an enemy of all that he reads, and,.. attack it from every side. He should also suspect himself as he performs his critical examination of it, so that he may avoid falling into either prejudice or leniency."
                              -Alhazen Ibn Al-Haythem

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                              • #30
                                Re: Do you know any stories of marriages being ruined because someone can't get over

                                Originally posted by Revertbrother View Post
                                Don't marry someone with a past....!!
                                I would feel disgusted to think my wife has been with someone... :vomit:

                                For men its a entirely different feeling... From my experience women tend to ignore the fact that man has had GF's or if he has committed zona.
                                All he has to say "I have repented" ...and girls being emotional creature buy the story.... 95% of times.

                                Remaining 5% are rare to find...
                                No. I am a territorial woman, so I would feel DISGUSTED to know that he's been with someone else.

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