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  • #16
    Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

    im surprised how much people know about being married without actually being married
    Believe
    there is
    good in the world

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    • #17
      Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

      Like others said try and do different things. If you get set in a routine it can become boring.

      What would be fun is going on a mini vacation somewhere ;)

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      • #18
        Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

        Originally posted by ugabs View Post
        im surprised how much people know about being married without actually being married
        Lots of studying.

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        • #19
          Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

          Originally posted by brightesthour View Post
          Lots of studying.
          And by studying, we mean Ummah Forum + Youtube.

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          • #20
            Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

            It can become boring when you let Shaytaan take you for a Ride, and Let your eyes and ears wander of to places where they should not, waste time and remember Allah ta'ala and his Kalam little,

            Nauzubillah min zaliq

            :jkk:
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            "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

            – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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            • #21
              Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

              Originally posted by ugabs View Post
              im surprised how much people know about being married without actually being married
              True. Some of us are experts on marriage and we are not even married. Lol
              Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
              ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

              www.treasureofthescholars.wordpress.com

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              • #22
                Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                Originally posted by raze599 View Post
                And by studying, we mean Ummah Forum + Youtube.
                Exactamundo

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                • #23
                  Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                  Originally posted by brightesthour View Post
                  Lots of studying.
                  I like how you put 'lots of' before studying

                  Like you some sort of a scholar haha
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                  • #24
                    Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                    Originally posted by ugabs View Post
                    I like how you put 'lots of' before studying

                    Like you some sort of a scholar haha
                    I am very scholarly when it comes to marriage.

                    I wish

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                    • #25
                      Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                      Its like with any new thing - when you first get your new phone or a new game or new car, its fun, its exciting but when you get used to using it it simply becomes a boring old phone/game/car that you are now used to
                      when you move to a new country, same applies - fun, exciting, discovering new places. but after a few years of living there it is now boring.
                      same with new friends, same with new house, same with new job. first couple of days/weeks/months are the exciting part but when you are fully settled you realise how stressful it can actually be, what the bad parts are etc and sometimes you even question whether you chose the right thing

                      but luckily most people, even when they do become bored of their new phone/car/game/house/country/job etc will still appreciate having it in their life and appreciate all it does for them. so yeah things will get boring - it always does - but don't let boring intimidate you. the best thing about something getting boring - especially a relationship - is that you can start finding ways to make it interesting again ;)

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                      • #26
                        Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                        Originally posted by brightesthour View Post
                        Lots of studying.
                        And wishful thinking.

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                        • #27
                          Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                          Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
                          Assalamu Alaikum,

                          One thing I have heard many married people say that at the beginning of the marriage, the 'honeymoon' phase is only for a limited amount of time..and then the nature of your relationship changes, and it's not as 'interesting' anymore and can become 'boring'.
                          Show me one of these people, Im a slap them so hard...

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                          • #28
                            Re: How can you become 'bored' of being married?

                            The following verse explains why you will get bored in marriage:

                            Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children - like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries and you see it turned yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allah and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion. [57:20]

                            This is the nature of this world. Everything turns yellow from green, including marriage.

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