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  • Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

    I wouldn't. I'm a one man woman. :/ It would just be weird. Imagine fighting with one husband then running into the arms of another.... AWKWAAAAARD.

    Discuss. :D

    Keep it appropriate please.. :/
    Last edited by HopefulOne; 16-11-14, 11:40 AM.
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    Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

    No. I think it would be sick. we are not ants or bees. Allah gives every creation a nature (depending on their role) and then gives us laws according to our nature.

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    • #3
      Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

      We shouldn't even be pondering over this because it's not part of our fitrah and never will be.

      Whoever says yes, I have no words...
      If your sins reached the heavens and you repented, your repentance would still be accepted.
      ~ The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)

      سنن ابن ماجه ٤٢٤٨

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      • #4
        Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

        Originally posted by umm salabil View Post
        No. I think it would be sick. we are not ants or bees. Allah gives every creation a nature (depending on their role) and then gives us laws according to our nature.
        You think like that because it's not allowed though. You're basically saying it's not allowed so it's sick. Men can do it. Is it not sick for them solely because it is halal? I don't know if you can see where I am coming from..
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        • #5
          Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

          Originally posted by صوفيا View Post
          We shouldn't even be pondering over this because it's not part of our fitrah and never will be.

          Whoever says yes, I have no words...
          It's a hypothetical situation. I am not encouraging anyone to rebel and get themselves multiple husbands. I personally do not see why we can't think about it. Thoughts do not equal actions.
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          • #6
            Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

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            • #7
              Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

              Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
              It's a hypothetical situation. I am not encouraging anyone to rebel and get themselves multiple husbands. I personally do not see why we can't think about it. Thoughts do not equal actions.
              It's not part of our fitrah, simple. What IS part of our fitrah is shyness and modesty, and thinking about what it would be like to have more than one husband doesn't match up with that - especially if these thoughts and ideas are made public.

              There are many reasons why women can't have multiple husbands. It's a clear ruling and we shouldn't be playing with it. What's the point of starting debates over hypothetical situations?
              If your sins reached the heavens and you repented, your repentance would still be accepted.
              ~ The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)

              سنن ابن ماجه ٤٢٤٨

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              • #8
                Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                I don't think we should be discussing this, highly inappropriate and we should maintain our hayyaah when it comes to these things :/
                The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

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                • #9
                  Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                  Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
                  You think like that because it's not allowed though. You're basically saying it's not allowed so it's sick. Men can do it. Is it not sick for them solely because it is halal? I don't know if you can see where I am coming from..
                  Well, I'm sure that if Allah had allowed it, then He would have made our minds such that we'd be able to accept it too. Like bees.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                    Originally posted by صوفيا View Post
                    It's not part of our fitrah, simple. What IS part of our fitrah is shyness and modesty, and thinking about what it would be like to have more than one husband doesn't match up with that - especially if these thoughts and ideas are made public.

                    There are many reasons why women can't have multiple husbands. It's a clear ruling and we shouldn't be playing with it. What's the point of starting debates over hypothetical situations?
                    I don't get what shyness and modesty has to do with anything? It's a simple question. I just thought of this because of the polygamy thread. As far as I am concerned, I have said nothing wrong. :/

                    But hey, you're entitled to your opinion.
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                    • #11
                      Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                      Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
                      It's a hypothetical situation. I am not encouraging anyone to rebel and get themselves multiple husbands. I personally do not see why we can't think about it. Thoughts do not equal actions.
                      I know my heart only has space for one man.

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                      • #12
                        Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                        Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                        I don't think we should be discussing this, highly inappropriate and we should maintain our hayyaah when it comes to these things :/
                        Nothing wrong with what I have asked. It's a simple question. I guess hayyah and whatnot would come into it when it comes to the answers.

                        But you are entitled to your opinion!
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                        • #13
                          Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                          Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
                          I don't get what shyness and modesty has to do with anything? It's a simple question. I just thought of this because of the polygamy thread. As far as I am concerned, I have said nothing wrong. :/

                          But hey, you're entitled to your opinion.
                          Well, maybe you can figure it out yourself if you genuinely don't know. Sorry if I caused offence, but I do think this is an inappropriate topic to be discussing.

                          :salams
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                          • #14
                            Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                            Originally posted by umm salabil View Post
                            Well, I'm sure that if Allah had allowed it, then He would have made our minds such that we'd be able to accept it too. Like bees.
                            My mind has no problem in thinking about this lol.
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                            • #15
                              Re: Women, if you were allowed 4 husbands, would you do it?

                              Originally posted by HopefulOne View Post
                              I don't get what shyness and modesty has to do with anything? It's a simple question. I just thought of this because of the polygamy thread. As far as I am concerned, I have said nothing wrong. :/

                              But hey, you're entitled to your opinion.
                              lol. Stop competing with men.

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