I live in a 6 bedroom house with my wife, 2 kids and parents and am the only son in the family. I have no siblings and would rather stay with my parents because
a) it's much easier financially
B) we have a baby sitter if we need it anytime.
C) we have plenty of space and can't afford a house like the one we live in now.
D) my parents ask nothing if my wife. She doesn't have to cook, or serve them in any way.
E) It is shameful being that I am the only boy.
My wife says she wants privacy, but I feel she is being disrespectful by splitting up the family. My parents would also have to sell there house because of this.
What kills me the most is I feel my wife is not a good wife because of this. 90% of the people in my culture with 1 son stay together even in apartments with there wives, many of them have 1000x worse mother n laws even my wife will admit to that.
I even know many were 2 brothers live in the same roof, and wives don't complain. I don't have proof but I think my mother n law is encouraging my wife to move out. They talk on phone for 30 minutes every single day despite being 1000 mikes away.
What should I do guys? Am very stressed out a out this.
a) it's much easier financially
B) we have a baby sitter if we need it anytime.
C) we have plenty of space and can't afford a house like the one we live in now.
D) my parents ask nothing if my wife. She doesn't have to cook, or serve them in any way.
E) It is shameful being that I am the only boy.
My wife says she wants privacy, but I feel she is being disrespectful by splitting up the family. My parents would also have to sell there house because of this.
What kills me the most is I feel my wife is not a good wife because of this. 90% of the people in my culture with 1 son stay together even in apartments with there wives, many of them have 1000x worse mother n laws even my wife will admit to that.
I even know many were 2 brothers live in the same roof, and wives don't complain. I don't have proof but I think my mother n law is encouraging my wife to move out. They talk on phone for 30 minutes every single day despite being 1000 mikes away.
What should I do guys? Am very stressed out a out this.
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