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    :salams:

    If a potential says that they will possibly have a second wife is it worth continuing if you know that you definitely don't want to be in a polygamous marriage?
    And strive because the sweetness of life lies in the struggle - Imam al-Shafi'i

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    Re: question about polygamy and potentials

    Was salam wr wb

    You've got to pass the test, l:)

    No, if you know its only going to create havoc.
    “Mix with the noble people, you become one of them; and keep away from evil people so that you protect yourself from their evils.”


    Hadhrat Ali (Radiallahu anhu)

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    • #3
      Re: question about polygamy and potentials

      :salams

      I wouldn't recommend it.
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      • #4
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        don't continue. the end.

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          Originally posted by hassaan561 View Post
          don't continue. the end.
          There you go. Thread closed :)
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          • #6
            Re: question about polygamy and potentials

            Don't most men say they will maybe have a second wife?
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            • #7
              Re: question about polygamy and potentials

              Originally posted by Strive View Post
              Don't most men say they will maybe have a second wife?
              I don't think so lol

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              • #8
                Re: question about polygamy and potentials

                Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
                I don't think so lol
                What's so funny?
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                • #9
                  Re: question about polygamy and potentials

                  Originally posted by Strive View Post
                  Don't most men say they will maybe have a second wife?
                  No haha.
                  I'd personally only want one anyway
                  Unless the guy has a good enough reason to, then most will. But don't think all would want a second wife.
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                  • #10
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                    ^
                    It's not funny
                    You people are mean :(
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                    • #11
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                      Personally I'd just find that annoying, "possibly" shows a lack of determination and sometimes wishful thinking that doesn't come true. I'd have more respect for someone who says clearly they will marry again and it is a realistic possibility, at least that shows determination and a clear thought process. It might all be to "test the waters" anyway, in which case I'd find it annoying too.

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                      • #12
                        Re: question about polygamy and potentials

                        Originally posted by Strive View Post
                        Don't most men say they will maybe have a second wife?
                        I would just be happy with the one. As long as she is caring, affectionate, etc. Then why would any guy even bother looking at any other woman if he has someone that loves him
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                        • #13
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                          Originally posted by Strive View Post
                          ^
                          It's not funny
                          You people are mean :(
                          Don't worry, There are several men who only want one wife.
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                          • #14
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                            If a potential says she's a feminist, I'll cry a tear of sadness, get up and walk away without saying a word. Let her pay the bill, it's her right.

                            I think those guys are very few actually. And I don't know why someone who's anti-polygamy would have even the slightest dilemma in this case.

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                            • #15
                              Re: question about polygamy and potentials

                              Originally posted by Sen View Post
                              If a potential says she's a feminist, I'll cry a tear of sadness, get up and walk away without saying a word. Let her pay the bill, it's her right.

                              I think those guys are very few actually. And I don't know why someone who's anti-polygamy would have even the slightest dilemma in this case.
                              I'm not anti-polygamy, i just don't want it for myself.
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