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  • LailaTheMuslim
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    Re: How equal would you like your religiosity and your spouse's be?

    I want him to be way better than me

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  • .mirror.
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    Originally posted by budi.sudaryo View Post
    here's a little question for you friends. who would you choose, a woman who's very good at deen who is, uhm, let's just say you have no attraction physically, or a woman whose deen is sufficient but slightly below you and she's beautiful?
    Drop dead, pick-up alive, gorgeous and extremely religious. That.

    Why it gotta be one of the other? Have high hopes from Allah :insha: and make Dua'a for exactly what you want.

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  • The Awakening
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    Originally posted by Mockingjay View Post
    I want him to be the same level or higher than me. But that's what I want. Allah gives what we need, not what we want. Wallahu a'lam.
    +1

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  • F50Magista
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    Originally posted by rainbow*~ View Post
    Lawwl, i wasnt insinuating anything :embar:
    ill just pretend i know what insinuating means

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  • Mockingjay
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    I want him to be the same level or higher than me. But that's what I want. Allah gives what we need, not what we want. Wallahu a'lam.

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  • dizzyfish
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    :)
    Last edited by dizzyfish; 22-02-15, 02:40 PM.

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  • rainbow*~
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    Originally posted by F50Magista View Post
    lol its kinda awkard asking me that dont u think.. its better if ur husband is stronger in deen than u when starting of in marriage..
    Lawwl, i wasnt insinuating anything :embar:

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  • F50Magista
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    Re: How equal would you like your religiosity and your spouse's be?

    Originally posted by rainbow*~ View Post
    Would you still choose the same if it was a man we were talking about?
    lol its kinda awkard asking me that dont u think.. its better if ur husband is stronger in deen than u when starting of in marriage..

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  • n0.n4m3
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    Originally posted by dizzyfish View Post
    No one knows what's best for you other than you.
    Allah

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  • msmoorad
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    Originally posted by Grimmjow View Post
    That is extremely insulting. You may be of a higher social class but that sentence is very ignorant.
    salaams to all

    its not true

    even if it was
    why would you find it insulting?
    if its the truth- its the truth

    deal with it- instead of getting all insulted & offended.

    we have to define intellect & ignorance FROM AN ISLAMIC PERSPECTIVE
    we cant take the wests standards & apply that to islam.

    thats where you seperate those who want to be real muslims & those who want to like like kaafirs-with some islamic flavour sprinkled on top.

    and Allah ta'ala knows best
    jazakallah

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  • rainbow*~
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    Originally posted by F50Magista View Post
    the second option... cuz if shes like unattractive u wont love her as much and ull et less attracted to her.. problems will.. occur however in the second option sh will be beautiful so it wuill be good for u both and plus u can make her deen stronger if u try
    Would you still choose the same if it was a man we were talking about?

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  • F50Magista
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    Re: How equal would you like your religiosity and your spouse's be?

    Originally posted by budi.sudaryo View Post
    here's a little question for you friends. who would you choose, a woman who's very good at deen who is, uhm, let's just say you have no attraction physically, or a woman whose deen is sufficient but slightly below you and she's beautiful?
    the second option... cuz if shes like unattractive u wont love her as much and ull et less attracted to her.. problems will.. occur however in the second option sh will be beautiful so it wuill be good for u both and plus u can make her deen stronger if u try

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  • dizzyfish
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    :)
    Last edited by dizzyfish; 22-02-15, 02:40 PM.

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  • budi.sudaryo
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    Re: How equal would you like your religiosity and your spouse's be?

    here's a little question for you friends. who would you choose, a woman who's very good at deen who is, uhm, let's just say you have no attraction physically, or a woman whose deen is sufficient but slightly below you and she's beautiful?

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  • budi.sudaryo
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    Re: How equal would you like your religiosity and your spouse's be?

    Originally posted by F50Magista View Post
    damn brotha u got high standards
    I know man, that's why I'm asking around how much compromise should I make..

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