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  • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

    Originally posted by Kalikatu View Post
    Wait a moment. Does a half bedroom flat mean that there will be another man living there also?! THEN HELL NO.



    if a girl marries a man obviously she would be living with that man!!

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    • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

      Originally posted by Revertbrother View Post


      if a girl marries a man obviously she would be living with that man!!
      She means other than her darling husband.....
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      • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

        Originally posted by |Abdur Raheem| View Post
        She means other than her darling husband.....
        here lemme give you a anti-dandruff massage!!
        :there:

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        • Originally posted by LondonGal View Post

          You mentioned bagging a rich guy,

          Or getting rich yourself.

          The option I mentioned was, help the husband get rich.

          Then sit at home and enjoy the money, but yes, in this situation, those I know who did this, had their babies later.
          I get it.
          It's a pity that the financial obligation is with the man, otherwise brothers have their options too. Lol.

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          • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

            Originally posted by Kalikatu View Post
            Wait a moment. Does a half bedroom flat mean that there will be another man living there also?! THEN HELL NO.
            lol tbh at first i thought it was tricky qsn and op will later disclose he meant half bedroom ya'ni living with inlaws loooooool but i think later it was clarified it actually means either one or two bedrooom flat

            Originally posted by noobz View Post
            i think reality is quite different than a forum answers.

            u live in a world where people get rejected cause they dont have a degree , u think some1 is going to let them marry off to ur daughter if u cant keep her in an 'appropriate' condition.
            same like marrying outside own ethnicity, ppl dont mind but the parents hv other views.

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            O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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            • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

              Originally posted by Ansaariyah View Post



              same like marrying outside own ethnicity, ppl dont mind but the parents hv other views.
              marrying from a different ethnicity is more like a parent issue , poverty is a universal issue that no1 wants to be married to.



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              • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

                Originally posted by noobz View Post
                marrying from a different ethnicity is more like a parent issue , poverty is a universal issue that no1 wants to be married to.
                not fair to say that after reading responses here

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                Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
                O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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                • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

                  Originally posted by Ansaariyah View Post
                  not fair to say that after reading responses here
                  thats why i said forum answers are not a yardstick to measure reality.



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                  • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

                    Originally posted by noobz View Post
                    thats why i said forum answers are not a yardstick to measure reality.
                    u said poverty is a universal issue when sisters here have proven it wrong, we are real ppl and living in real world too lol

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                    Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
                    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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                    • Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .....

                      i think this thread highlights the importance of a walis role.
                      http://kondori.wordpress.com/

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                      • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

                        Originally posted by Uthman Ibn Afan View Post
                        i think this thread highlights the importance of a walis role.
                        Could you elaborate please?
                        www.treasureofthescholars.wordpress.com

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                        • Re: Sisters would you marry a poor man who could only afford a 1/2 bedroom flat and .

                          Originally posted by Grimmjow View Post
                          Could you elaborate please?
                          Women who don't want 100k mahr are obviously too deluded to pick husbands?

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