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  • How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

    Esselam aleykum

    I heard some brothers or sisters who met on places like these and they actually got married. So i wonder how it is possible to do that if they are pious ?

    What i mean by calling them pious is,

    For example i can not just go and send a private message to a sister because i do not know what i will tell her. If i tell her about marriage in first words, probably she already recieved so many of those messages before because i read in some sisters profiles that they don't want such messages from boys. So this means they already got the experience before.

    And if i try to approach them in other means, such as opening a topic which is not related to marriage but actually i am just tryint to get close to her, then is it not ''tricky'' and immodest to do that ? It just doesnt feel good because you know your intention but she does not know. She thinks you opened a topic because you wanna talk about it but actually you just try to talk to her.

    I hope you do get what i mean and advise me on this issue

    Thank you

  • #2
    Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

    If you're talking about here, then that can be done through the moderators.

    I don't think people go around calling themselves pious, but even if they are pious they can still make mistakes.

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    • #3
      Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

      Originally posted by مسلمة View Post
      If you're talking about here, then that can be done through the moderators.

      I don't think people go around calling themselves pious, but even if they are pious they can still make mistakes.
      You are right actually. Maybe they really have good hearts and sometimes they get into topics unwillingly with a sister and maybe later on someone tells them ''why you both don't get married ?'' and there it happens that they get married. Maybe at first they didnt have such intention. Anyway, it is complicated

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      • #4
        Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

        Originally posted by Eren View Post
        You are right actually. Maybe they really have good hearts and sometimes they get into topics unwillingly with a sister and maybe later on someone tells them ''why you both don't get married ?'' and there it happens that they get married. Maybe at first they didnt have such intention. Anyway, it is complicated
        That can happen too.

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        • #5
          Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

          Yeah, by contacting a moderator here

          Two users need to get married. I wanna see an Ummah Forum marriage :inlove: so cute

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          • #6
            Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

            Originally posted by brightesthour View Post
            Yeah, by contacting a moderator here

            Two users need to get married. I wanna see an Ummah Forum marriage :inlove: so cute
            What should i tell them ?

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            • #7
              Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

              Originally posted by Eren View Post
              What should i tell them ?
              Just say you're interested in a user here for marriage. They'll probably ask you a few questions and will let the user know.

              Not 100% sure though.

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              • #8
                Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

                There is not such a user yet because they neither write their age or where they live or nothing really -eventhough its good for their private and security-. So i dont wanna keep asking them ''what about this ? what about that one ? And this one ?''

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                • #9
                  Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

                  :salams:

                  This isn't a matrimonial site, and you haven't really been on this site that long as a member, I think it is only for members that have been here for a while and the moderators can help If they ask, maybe I'm wrong.

                  However this is definitely not the place to search for a spouse. Have you tried other avenues first? If so, then you can try online but it's harder because it's very difficult to tell if someone is pious as said above. You just have to pray isthikhaara and go for it if you're happy.

                  Hope that was helpful?

                  May Allah swt bless you with a pious wife- Ameen :-)

                  :jkk:
                  'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                  So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                  • #10
                    Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

                    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                    :salams:

                    This isn't a matrimonial site, and you haven't really been on this site that long as a member, I think it is only for members that have been here for a while and the moderators can help If they ask, maybe I'm wrong.

                    However this is definitely not the place to search for a spouse. Have you tried other avenues first? If so, then you can try online but it's harder because it's very difficult to tell if someone is pious as said above. You just have to pray isthikhaara and go for it if you're happy.

                    Hope that was helpful?

                    May Allah swt bless you with a pious wife- Ameen :-)

                    :jkk:
                    Walakumsalam warahmatullah brother

                    Actually i did not mean only this site but in general online.

                    However, thank you for advice
                    waiyyaka

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                    • #11
                      Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

                      lol

                      I'm actually unspecified (an alien) - it is a mystery,

                      Sorry, I misunderstood. Be careful with online sites

                      And your very welcome!!

                      Barak Allah feek
                      'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                      So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                      • #12
                        Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

                        Originally posted by Eren View Post
                        There is not such a user yet because they neither write their age or where they live or nothing really -eventhough its good for their private and security-. So i dont wanna keep asking them ''what about this ? what about that one ? And this one ?''
                        have you got a list???
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                        • #13
                          Re: How Do Some Sisters/Brothers Who Are Pious Meet Online ?

                          Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                          have you got a list???
                          No ?

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