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  • #2
    Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

    LOL at mugshot

    These days you don't know how your picture will be used, so better to arrange a meeting
    Not knowing what one doesn't know will lead to difficulty

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    • #3
      Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

      How about a selfie?


      :p
      Last edited by iRepIslam; 24-08-14, 11:08 AM.
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      • #4
        Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

        It is better to get someone to show them the picture in person, so they don't keep it. Some perverts do this, collect pictures of sisters and you've no guarantee they'll destroy the picture after viewing it.
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        • #5
          Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

          face to face is better

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          • #6
            Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

            :salams

            From Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If one of you proposes marriage to a woman, if he can look at her to see that which will encourage him to go ahead and marry her, then let him do so.’ I proposed marriage to a young woman, and I used to hide where I could see her, until I saw that which encouraged me to go ahead and marry her, so I did so.’” According to another report he said, ‘a young woman of Bani Salamah. I used to hide from her, until I saw that which encouraged me to go ahead and marry her, so I did so.” (Saheeh Abi Dawood, no. 1832, 1834)

            Yes, it's fine if they see your picture. It would be preferable if you send a person to the other party, show them the picture and take the picture back instead of letting them keep the picture.
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            • #7
              Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

              If you want to, it is your choice

              Wear a fake moustache in it to scare him

              I have no problems sending my picture to any potential spouses
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              • #8
                Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                omg i dont know if ur serious but if wanna make good impression i just stick to selfie or just meet them in person :)

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                • #9
                  Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                  :salams:


                  yeh I did that before, cos I'm a mug

                  But would advise you not to

                  :jkk:

                  p.s taking selfies are worse than making roti
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                  • #10
                    Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                    Do you even have a choice DoA? Wouldn't your parents just send it anyway without even telling you? Or is it just some people I know who do this. :S
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                    • #11
                      Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                      Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                      How about a selfie?


                      :p
                      selfies can be deceiving...having the right angle, the right lighting, the right smile...

                      not to brag but me for an example, i look abnormally handsome on my profile pic (on fb not this one obviously!) which is a selfie...but id consider myself average or slightly below average looking...or atleast to me.
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                      • #12
                        Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                        Originally posted by ss91 View Post
                        selfies can be deceiving...having the right angle, the right lighting, the right smile...

                        not to brag but me for an example, i look abnormally handsome on my profile pic (on fb not this one obviously!) which is a selfie...but id consider myself average or slightly below average looking...or atleast to me.
                        Yes, I totally agree, it is best to just meet in person because pictures can be very deceiving.
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                        • #13
                          Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                          Originally posted by Lotus|A| View Post
                          Do you even have a choice DoA? Wouldn't your parents just send it anyway without even telling you? Or is it just some people I know who do this. :S
                          My mother doesn't like sending photos and my father would never ever send my photo without my permission.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                            Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
                            My mother doesn't like sending photos and my father would never ever send my photo without my permission.
                            Oh mashaAllah, that's good that your family is very open about these things. :)
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                            • #15
                              Re: Is it ok to send your mugshot picture to a potential spouse?

                              Originally posted by ss91 View Post
                              selfies can be deceiving...having the right angle, the right lighting, the right smile...

                              not to brag but me for an example, i look abnormally handsome on my profile pic (on fb not this one obviously!) which is a selfie...but id consider myself average or slightly below average looking...or atleast to me.
                              Ohh shucks... And all this time I thought this was a well kept secret amongst girls .

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