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    When it comes to issues relating to personal stuff
    This probably is one of the reasons leading to lack of communication and understanding leading to problems later on in marriage.

    Husbands think they are troubling the wives when and if they have to talk about love as the wives need time to relax and me time and all that and husbands don't want to be poking their faces all the time and troubling the wives.


    Just sayin : )

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    Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

    *slowly and silencly closes this thread and walks away*


    No, but really.

    My observation is that men just don't talk. In "my" culture they get drunk, run around naked and then they either have a fist fight or go on lovey dobey rampage. Normally they're just silent. Silent to their kids, silent to their wives, silent to each other. I guess they assume that people can read their minds. Communication is vital whatever the scenario.
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    • #3
      Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

      i think because men still trying to be men, therefore like kalikatu says men dont talk. they are just expected to deal with problem ethemself without asking from help of wife.

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      • #4
        Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

        :salams

        Who are these husbnads you talk of? Surely, this is different from person to person.
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        • #5
          Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

          I was talking my therapist and she was telling me that men in my culture tend to keep their feelings to themselves and the only emotion they end up showing is anger. They don't like discussing really deep things with their wives for some reason
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          • #6
            Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

            Originally posted by sister_82 View Post
            I was talking my therapist and she was telling me that men in my culture tend to keep their feelings to themselves and the only emotion they end up showing is anger. They don't like discussing really deep things with their wives for some reason
            Yep, something i have seen as well.
            That anger is a consequence of the other partner in marriage constantly seeking attention so the feelings have nowhere to go but turn to anger.
            The reason why men tend not to discuss feelings is because of the preconceived notion that a wife will not understand and it can only lead to arguements, so being quiet is rational.

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            • #7
              Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

              cos men dont talk/share generally

              btw ur second para dont make sesne :S

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              • #8
                Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

                Originally posted by Ansaariyah View Post
                cos men dont talk/share generally

                btw ur second para dont make sesne :S
                What i mean by the second paragraph is men are clueless to the emotional changes of women and they worry sometimes thinking it is because they are pressurizing them too much into everything.
                So they take a back seat.

                BTW what do you do with a man who just dont like to talk much

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                • #9
                  Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

                  Originally posted by Kalikatu View Post
                  *slowly and silencly closes this thread and walks away*


                  No, but really.

                  My observation is that men just don't talk. In "my" culture they get drunk, run around naked and then they either have a fist fight or go on lovey dobey rampage. Normally they're just silent. Silent to their kids, silent to their wives, silent to each other. I guess they assume that people can read their minds. Communication is vital whatever the scenario.
                  LOL run around naked. A bunch of naked guys having a fist fight...what culture is this????
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                  • #10
                    Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

                    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post

                    Husbands think they are troubling the wives when and if they have to talk about love as the wives need time to relax and me time and all that and husbands don't want to be poking their faces all the time and troubling the wives.
                    What does that mean? lol sounds funny

                    Im gonna say to my wife, touch my thobe..... Thats husband material!!!!!!!! LOL (JOKE) to break the ice :banbear::banbear:
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                    • #11
                      Why are husbands shy around wives

                      Men are complicated creatures.
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                      • #12
                        Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

                        Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                        Men are complicated creatures.
                        Says a woman...=|
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                        • #13
                          Why are husbands shy around wives

                          Loool they just need to show more of their feelings and not hide it. How are we gonna understand them.
                          إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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                          • #14
                            Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

                            you cant be shy
                            They say good things come to those who wait, so imma be at least an hour late

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                              Re: Why are husbands shy around wives

                              Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                              Loool they just need to show more of their feelings and not hide it. How are we gonna understand them.
                              Men are taught from a young age that expressing their feelings is a sign of weakness. I think that's why I always have a serious look on my face
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