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    Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    I know many of you are not parents and do not have adult children, but inshaAllah if you live long enough to do so, would you allow them to marry outside of your ethnicity?

    Also, what kind of conditions would you require someone to have in order for your son/daughter to be allowed to marry them? E.g. do they need to be earning x amount of money etc.?

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    Last edited by DaughterOfAdam; 06-08-14, 02:55 PM.

    #2
    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

    Of course and same is with my parents :alhumdull they (especially abi) have never been against it :up:

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      #3
      Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

      When we is Moslems ethnicity don't matter.

      Conditions? Probably be similar to their father :insha: in a different sort of way.

      Why.....I'll rant in another thread won't derail yours.

      I like cake!

      لا تفكر كثيرا
      بل استغفر كثيرا

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        #4
        Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

        yes.
        'And when a thing for which you ask is slow to come,
        Then know that often through delay are gifts received'
        علي الحبشي

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          #5
          Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

          - Absolutly

          - All potentials would have the same basic requirements. No other ethnicity would have special, above and beyond, or otherwise extra requirements.
          Fabi-ayyiala -i rabbikuma tukaththibani
          Then which of the favors of your Lord will ye deny?
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            #6
            Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

            yes without a doubt

            have told my parents this and my mother has said she is not happy but i dont care.

            have told theif father and his face was like :shock:

            but I DONT CARE
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              #7
              Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

              Originally posted by F_R View Post
              When we is Moslems ethnicity don't matter.

              Conditions? Probably be similar to their father :insha: in a different sort of way.

              Why.....I'll rant in another thread won't derail yours.

              I like cake!
              And who's their father?

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                #8
                Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

                Originally posted by Ansaariyah View Post
                Of course and same is with my parents :alhumdull they (especially abi) have never been against it :up:
                :masha: what lovely parents you have! May Allah grant them al firdaws, ameen
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                As You have sanctified Your house,
                Make my heart as protected and as honoured
                In which permission of entry
                Is only granted to a few,
                Please Allah, allow my heart
                To be preserved only for You.



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                  #9
                  Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                  Yes inshaAllah :)

                  I don't even speak my language so that wouldn't be a problem in regards to communication between the son in law
                  إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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                    #10
                    Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

                    Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                    yes without a doubt

                    have told my parents this and my mother has said she is not happy but i dont care.

                    have told theif father and his face was like :shock:

                    but I DONT CARE
                    WaT a ReBeL
                    O people who take pleasure in a life that will vanish, falling in love with a fading shadow is sheer stupidity~ Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyya

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                      #11
                      Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

                      So is the first person who votes no going to get bullied?

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                        #12
                        Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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                        Last edited by F_R; 06-08-14, 05:08 PM.

                        لا تفكر كثيرا
                        بل استغفر كثيرا

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                          #13
                          Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

                          Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                          yes without a doubt

                          have told my parents this and my mother has said she is not happy but i dont care.

                          have told theif father and his face was like :shock:

                          but I DONT CARE
                          It seems you learned from your experiences

                          Well done sister london
                          Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
                          ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

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                            #14
                            Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                            Originally posted by F_R View Post
                            My husband :)


                            Is he a person on this forum by any chance? Lol

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                              #15
                              Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                              To the sister op, yes I would

                              I would marry out my ethnicity and probably will

                              So it is unfair to put restrictions on my children.
                              Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
                              ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

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