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    #16
    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
    Is he a person on this forum by any chance? Lol
    :asta:

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    Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
    O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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      #17
      AW: Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

      Yes I would let them inshallah.

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        #18
        Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

        Originally posted by sunrise867 View Post
        :masha: what lovely parents you have! May Allah grant them al firdaws, ameen
        Ameen wa iyyaki :)

        I think its cos they seen couples who have married outside community and are still happily married? alhamdulillaah

        My sister's MIL herself is a revert and she and mum are like besties

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        Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
        O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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          #19
          Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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          Last edited by F_R; 06-08-14, 05:08 PM.

          لا تفكر كثيرا
          بل استغفر كثيرا

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            #20
            Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

            InshaAllah,

            I have twin boys, one told me he wants to marry a Dutch revert girl, the other wants to marry a Moroccan girl.

            As long as the girls are Muslimah's. :up:
            My heart will go on

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              #21
              Re: AW: Re: Would you allow your children to marry out of their ethnicity?

              I have heard of too many stories where a guy and girl from different ethnicities like each other and their parents say no.

              And then you wonder why zina is so rampant when you make marriage so hard.
              Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
              ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

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                #22
                Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                Your kids are already talking about marriage?
                Originally posted by zainah View Post
                InshaAllah,

                I have twin boys, one told me he wants to marry a Dutch revert girl, the other wants to marry a Moroccan girl.

                As long as the girls are Muslimah's. :up:
                They say good things come to those who wait, so imma be at least an hour late

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                  #23
                  Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                  Originally posted by F_R View Post
                  Innit :asta:
                  Oh come on, it was genuine question lol

                  If you don't want to answer, that's ok :)

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                    #24
                    Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                    Originally posted by zainah View Post
                    InshaAllah,

                    I have twin boys, one told me he wants to marry a Dutch revert girl, the other wants to marry a Moroccan girl.

                    As long as the girls are Muslimah's. :up:
                    But your boys are so young. So why are they thinking if marriage so suddenly. Maybe they matured quicker than me.

                    I was held back from being independent and had too much of a cushy life
                    Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
                    ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

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                      #25
                      Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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                      Last edited by F_R; 06-08-14, 05:08 PM.

                      لا تفكر كثيرا
                      بل استغفر كثيرا

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                      The children need your prayers more than anyone else
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                        #26
                        Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                        Originally posted by F_R View Post
                        I have a question for you :)

                        I know many of you are not parents and do not have adult children, but inshaAllah if you live long enough to do so, would you allow them to marry outside of your ethnicity?

                        Also, what kind of conditions would you require someone to have in order for your son/daughter to be allowed to marry them? E.g. do they need to be earning x amount of money etc.?
                        I'd rather not answer that right now. :)

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                          #27
                          Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

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                          Last edited by F_R; 06-08-14, 05:08 PM.

                          لا تفكر كثيرا
                          بل استغفر كثيرا

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                          The children need your prayers more than anyone else
                          -------------------------------------------------------
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                            #28
                            Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                            Originally posted by F_R View Post
                            Aww why not? Is your husband a username? :)
                            Gosh you gals, have some shame.

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                            Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta Khalaqtani wa ana'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa Wa'dika mastata'tu A'uidhubika min sharri ma sana'tu.' abu'u Laka bi ni 'matika wa'ala abu'u bidhanbi; faghfirli fa'innahu la yaghfiru-dh-dhunuba illa anta.
                            O Allah, You are my Lord, none has the right to be worshipped except You, You created me and I am Your servant and I abide to Your covenant and promise as best I can, I take refuge in You from the evil of which I have committed. I acknowledge Your favour upon me and I acknowledgemy sin, so forgive me, for verilynone can forgive sin except You.



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                              #29
                              Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                              Originally posted by F_R View Post
                              Aww why not? Is your husband a username? :)
                              I don't have a husband..and if I did, he wouldn't be a 'username' lol

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                                #30
                                Re: Would you allow your children to marry outside of their ethnicity?

                                Yes I'll let my children marry from a different ethnicity but I probably won't

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