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  • #61
    Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

    :)
    Last edited by dizzyfish; 03-03-15, 11:48 PM.

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    • #62
      Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

      Her wali works at NSA, have fun.

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      • #63
        Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

        one of the asian aunties could do a background check better then any crb orgnaisation :rotfl:
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        • #64
          Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

          Originally posted by Hadid View Post
          Her wali works at NSA, have fun.
          That would actually be so funny. I would kill to see that.
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          • #65
            Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

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            My future wife will not find anything on me. I have hardly anything to hide.

            I lead a boring life which involves being home mostly.

            It is only important to me that she has not been with another guy
            Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
            ( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)

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            • #66
              Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

              run one on him and then ask him how he feels aout background checks. good way to find out if he is a liar. although that does seem a bit sneaky. if i was feeling funny, i migth say. how did my background check turnout.. or who knows.. it couldve been something about u that made him question something, so it would bother me and i would ask him. I would ask if he intended to ddo it all along or was it something i did.

              also sometimes crazy people dont want another crazy person like them so he might be checking that you dont have the same background as him. theres so many scenarios but instead of the pondering, i would just bring it up
              Raindrops.hail.ouch

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              • #67
                Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                I wouldn't mind because I'd probably do a check on them as well

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                • #68
                  Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                  I don't mind, basically half my life is on the internet, if I cared then it wouldn't

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                  • #69
                    Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                    Originally posted by Hadid View Post
                    Her wali works at NSA, have fun.
                    I think any person with half a mustard seed's worth of shame wouldn't work at the NSA. The sick stuff they do. Snowden said they toss around nude photos of Americans in the office. These are grown men apparently. Apparently Snowden was supposed to be executed for leaking whatever he leaked.
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                    • #70
                      Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                      Originally posted by dizzyfish View Post
                      How do you do these tests? Even a CRB check needs your authorisation.... Please provide directions of site or something. I'd like to check myself.
                      i ve seen websites that offer these services for a fee..just google background checks, most of it is public record anyhow. i am sure too there are agencies, private investigators, etc you can go too. but i think most pay a small fee with these online services, it gives quick results from what i see, past addresses, divorces, etc. i ve never done one but i did a few searches and there are tons of sites that do this...out of curiousity i typed my name in and one site gave brief info, my name, birthdate, address and then you have to pay for further information

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                      • #71
                        Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                        Wouldn't be bothered, am i supposed to be?
                        And strive because the sweetness of life lies in the struggle - Imam al-Shafi'i

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                        • #72
                          Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                          Originally posted by Tahiyah View Post
                          i ve seen websites that offer these services for a fee..just google background checks, most of it is public record anyhow. i am sure too there are agencies, private investigators, etc you can go too. but i think most pay a small fee with these online services, it gives quick results from what i see, past addresses, divorces, etc. i ve never done one but i did a few searches and there are tons of sites that do this...out of curiousity i typed my name in and one site gave brief info, my name, birthdate, address and then you have to pay for further information
                          So is that what he ran on you? How'd you find out about it?

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                          • #73
                            Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                            how they would do this? police records? hehe

                            i think i would be little bit flattered. but also feeling wow this brother is so paranoid!

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                            • #74
                              Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                              Originally posted by Summar View Post
                              I wouldn't get offended, they know they can ask you but it doesn't necessarily mean it will be the truth so asking about your character from others would help. If it was a criminal background check than thats kind of funny loll.
                              Lol. I imagine like a seemingly innocent looking hijabi with a high pitched voice and very shy attitude but the brother doesn't know she is a felon on the run from FBI
                              "The duty of the man who investigates the writings of scientists, if learning the truth is his goal, is to make himself an enemy of all that he reads, and,.. attack it from every side. He should also suspect himself as he performs his critical examination of it, so that he may avoid falling into either prejudice or leniency."
                              -Alhazen Ibn Al-Haythem

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                              • #75
                                Re: How would you feel if a potential spouse did a background check on you?

                                Originally posted by ss91 View Post
                                Lol. I imagine like a seemingly innocent looking hijabi with a high pitched voice and very shy attitude but the brother doesn't know she is a felon on the run from FBI
                                A criminal background check could bring up drug offences or DUI's. Those red flags would probably point to 'other' issues as well lol.

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