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    ...when brothers and sisters are going through divorce, Taqwa and Islam goes out of the window?!

  • #2
    Re: Why is it that...

    Originally posted by ahaneefah View Post
    ...when brothers and sisters are going through divorce, Taqwa and Islam goes out of the window?!
    we don't know how we would behave in their situation.

    not saying it is justified,

    but it is best to worry about ourselves and just be happy that Allah is not testing us like them.
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    • #3
      Re: Why is it that...

      A muslim brother who pray, got beard, follow Islam strictly got divorced and when the girl ask for her things back, they send them back all destroyed to her. If you cant be good husband, be good muslim and return her things with respect.


      • #4
        Re: Why is it that...

        Originally posted by ahaneefah View Post
        ...when brothers and sisters are going through divorce, Taqwa and Islam goes out of the window?!
        love of the dunya
        raw emotion
        irrational thinking

        loads of reason but it depends on the person doesn't it.

        not everyone goes t hrough the same emotinos when they get divorced
        Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said: "Dont ruin your happiness with worry, and dont ruin your mind with pessimism. Dont ruin your success with deception and dont ruin the optimism of others by destroying it. Dont ruin your day by looking back at yesterday.
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        • #5
          Re: Why is it that...

          because brothers and sisters are still humans at the end of the day, we aren't perfect, even though we shouldn't we do still get angry, competitive, snipey, aggressive and we do still allow ourselves to turn ugly through hurt.


          • #6
            Re: Why is it that...

            This is so true, I cannot count the number of times I've seen good practising people turn into spiteful monsters as soon as divorce hits the table.
            May Allah save us from this.
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            • #7
              Re: Why is it that...

              Not always the case.

              And in these cases you wont hear about it, because the person does sabr for the sake of Allah swt and more often than not, silence is so much more befitting.

              It can be.....esp if one person is being uncooperative about things, its so easy to get ones own back....

              ........but if you have guidance from your elders and mashaaikh they always remind you that the Aakhirah is better for the one who does sabr!

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              "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

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              • #8
                Re: Why is it that...

                FYI, I am not going through this, I love my wife!!!!!!

                I have come across few cases where the husband/wife ignore Islamic rulings and advice and the children get hurt the most during the fighting and being pulled from mother to the father. Why can't they resolve things amicably?