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  • SoulMuslim
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    Originally posted by LoveIsTheAnswer View Post
    I am not a Muslim of course but I just like to hear Islamic perspectives on matters nonetheless.

    So it is mandatory for a husband and wife to have sex in Islam? I know that asceticism is not halal but this sounds a bit hedonistic to me. I would have though that things like love and the quality of the husband and wife would be more important than intimacy. But I am just assuming these things though and totally speaking out of my head.
    It's not mandatory if both doesn't want sex, but if one wants sex, the other spouse must fulfill that responsibility.

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  • LoveIsTheAnswer
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    Originally posted by عبد المنعم View Post
    ___ EDITED because i might hurt asexual people.



    BUT, i don't approve of sisters here saying this can happen.... Islam promotes a healthy sex life.
    I am not a Muslim of course but I just like to hear Islamic perspectives on matters nonetheless.

    So it is mandatory for a husband and wife to have sex in Islam? I know that asceticism is not halal but this sounds a bit hedonistic to me. I would have though that things like love and the quality of the husband and wife would be more important than intimacy. But I am just assuming these things though and totally speaking out of my head.

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  • LoveIsTheAnswer
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    Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Akhi the Op is a known Troll, just ignore it and it's posts.
    I could say the same to you as you are the trolliest of the trolls. Somebody asks a question and you hate the fact they exist. Do you even know what a troll is? A troll is somebody who tries "stirring the pot". You are offended by any question or statement by somebody who is not a Muslim and thus they are your enemy. You seriously have to be a terrorist/militia sympathizer and a violent person to have this mentality. It is disturbing.
    You hate all Jews, want people to die for no reason other than your amusement and you declare absurdities towards any person who realizes you have nothing to contribute to humanity.
    I have been at this stage when I was a teenager to and if you do not grow out of it you will regret it. I assure you this. Go to a masjid or find happiness with those that love you. Spreading hate will only make your own life miserable.

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  • LoveIsTheAnswer
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    Originally posted by Musbah View Post
    How long has this been going on? Perhaps you are suffering from low testosterone. If you are really asexual then why the need to be in a relationship?
    Since I was born and no I am not suffering from low testosterone. I figured that out from a medical check up from a humorous accident. I will not go into details about it

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  • LoveIsTheAnswer
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    Originally posted by Aashiq View Post
    There are women who feel the same way, maybe if you put up a profile on a Muslim marriage site with that specific requirement you may get some interest.

    Do you know if it's a mental issue or a hormonal issue? Also you should know that it doesn't always last forever. You could find yourself in an asexual marriage and one day you or your wife suddenly change and then a divorce wont be far off. What's your need to marry?
    There have never been any hormonal or psychological researches into asexuality that much. Most people like myself have no hormone issues although psychology is probably the major issue. It is just weird considering that I have always been asexual and asexuality is something a person cannot change like being straight or gay. I literally have no sexual orientation by default.

    The thing about asexuality is that it does not change. So saying I can grow out of it is a nonsensical question. I am not insulting you but I am just trying to be sure you understand my dilemma

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  • SoulMuslim
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    Ask Satan to find you a Djinn ;)...you don't have to do sex with a lady Djinn..I heard they are very pretty..lol

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  • عبد المنعم
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    ___ EDITED because i might hurt asexual people.



    BUT, i don't approve of sisters here saying this can happen.... Islam promotes a healthy sex life.
    Last edited by عبد المنعم; 20-06-14, 06:10 PM.

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Originally posted by hamza1d1 View Post
    is this a joke? islamically one of the reason of marriage is to reproduce and increase the ummahs population.
    Akhi the Op is a known Troll, just ignore it and it's posts.

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  • hamza1d1
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    is this a joke? islamically one of the reason of marriage is to reproduce and increase the ummahs population.

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  • Minzur
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    considering that is apparetly a very common issue that men find that their partner has no desire for it - I think you wont have a problem. Good luck

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  • Search
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    :start: (In the name of God, the Beneficent, the Merciful)

    Well, the good thing is that people have previously thought up this; so, I suppose you're not alone in history. For example, during the time of free love in the U.S., there was a reactionary backlash in some parts which resulted in some persons deciding that marriage did not have to include physical intimacy, and therefore they resolved to have celibate marriages. So, I suppose that it can happen and some men and women can be happy to be in such marriages. However, the people in celibate marriages did die out and so did the philosophy with them, which was a reaction to what they saw as immorality, selfishness, and self-interested love. (I apologize if there is confusion in time period as my U.S. history is rusty; but this is from what I remember in U.S. history course).

    So, yes, some females can wrap their mind around happy celibate marriages; and physical intimacy is not a criterion for marriage always. That being said, I think males will find it particularly difficult from the get-go to be in celibate marriages than women. Also, the time-honored notion of marriage has always been for the purpose of finding intimacy (of whatever nature) in a divinely sanctioned relationship. Therefore, to deny oneself one of the core and beautiful aspects of marriage that can also result in spiritual union is not very wise.

    Also, you may believe that you are asexual; but that does not believe it will remain true always as you may find yourself later in your life or even in a celibate marriage wanting to translate mental and emotional attraction to a person if the potential for physical attraction is there into physical union. So, please weigh all pros and cons if you decide to marry and be flexible if you later change your mind. Life sometimes has a unique way of upsetting our most cherished opinions about ourselves and also our well-thought-out plans when we least expect it.

    Take care.

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    brothers and sisters please don't feed the Trolls, like this LoveIsTheAnswer character,

    :jkk:

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  • UmmAbdulMalik
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    Hmm.


    Interesting.


    But you can't go off it COMPLETELY.

    Maybe for a while, but surely, 'biology' brings you back up. Ahaha

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  • Wave&Smile
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    Originally posted by UmmAbdulMalik View Post
    Are you crazy?


    You must be coocoo sis. Sorry, OP but I and any other normal women couldn't live with that.

    Sex is fundamental to any marriage.

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  • UmmAbdulMalik
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    Originally posted by Asma28 View Post
    So long as he kept up his other husband duties (loving, caring, supporting) a lot of women would be ok with it. There are asexual women out there too or women with no massive interest in intimacy


    Are you crazy?


    You must be coocoo sis. Sorry, OP but I and any other normal women couldn't live with that.

    Sex is fundamental to any marriage.

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