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    I got married its now 2 yrs.my husband loves me n does alot for me.we have no children n he doesnt like the idea of me wrkn.i feel suffocated bt i never show him .i do evry thing he asks me to without talkn bck but i ferl like i am loosning myself.i dnt knw wat to do and i am afraid of asking for a divorce.should i sacrific all i want n be with him.will this divorce be valid?

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    Re: my marriage is on the line

    My husband loves me and does alot for me but i still want a divorce, interesting times we live in.
    "Europe died in Bosnia and was buried in Syria. Bodies of innocent children washing ashore are the
    western civilization's tombstones"


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    • #3
      Re: my marriage is on the line

      Originally posted by imran1976 View Post
      My husband loves me and does alot for me but i still want a divorce, interesting times we live in.
      you clearly didn't read or didn't understand the whole post.

      the issue she has is feeling suffocated in the marriage, which is most likely due to the fact she doesn't talk about these issues with her husband and so getting bottled up it gets worse and worse for her.
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      • #4
        Re: my marriage is on the line

        Originally posted by hamar View Post
        I got married its now 2 yrs.my husband loves me n does alot for me.we have no children n he doesnt like the idea of me wrkn.i feel suffocated bt i never show him .i do evry thing he asks me to without talkn bck but i ferl like i am loosning myself.i dnt knw wat to do and i am afraid of asking for a divorce.should i sacrific all i want n be with him.will this divorce be valid?
        you need to talk to your husband and he needs to learn to listen to you. the problems are probably not so severe as it seems, but by bottling it up let them get worse not better and Prophet Muhammad (saw) would spend time with each wife each night listening to her and talking to her before he would finally spend the most time with the wife who he was staying with that night.
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        • #5
          Re: my marriage is on the line

          Originally posted by Outreach4Islam View Post
          the issue she has is feeling suffocated in the marriage, which is most likely due to the fact she doesn't talk about these issues with her husband and so getting bottled up it gets worse and worse for her.
          so get a divorce ...... khallas!
          i have read and understood the matter, there's no substance in it.
          "Europe died in Bosnia and was buried in Syria. Bodies of innocent children washing ashore are the
          western civilization's tombstones"


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          • #6
            Re: my marriage is on the line

            I have tried talkn to him b4 but all he does is give promises.i want a lif where we help each other out not being so dependent on him.i come frm a poor bckground n i feel bad when he sometimes simply ignores my pleas.

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            • #7
              Re: my marriage is on the line

              If i ask for th divorc he will tak it that its due to our childlssness n ifi stay i sacrifice wat i want to b in life.am in a crossroad

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              • #8
                Re: my marriage is on the line

                Originally posted by imran1976 View Post
                so get a divorce ...... khallas!
                i have read and understood the matter, there's no substance in it.
                Ur quick tempered innit?
                The sister doesnt have children which may be an issue in the marraige and her hubby dont want her to work.

                u must be a bachelor, cause clearly u dont seem to understand.
                "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

                "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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                • #9
                  Re: my marriage is on the line

                  i'm still trying to figure out what the real issue is,
                  if it's got to do with working than, it's the husband's job to provide for the family, a muslim wife isn't supposed to go out and work unnecessarily.
                  "Europe died in Bosnia and was buried in Syria. Bodies of innocent children washing ashore are the
                  western civilization's tombstones"


                  Rajab Tayyab Erdogan

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                  • #10
                    Re: my marriage is on the line

                    Originally posted by hamar View Post
                    If i ask for th divorc he will tak it that its due to our childlssness n ifi stay i sacrifice wat i want to b in life.am in a crossroad
                    Sister talk to him that u are feeling so low and the situation is so bad ur thinking about divorce
                    "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

                    "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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                    • #11
                      Re: my marriage is on the line

                      Originally posted by imran1976 View Post
                      i'm still trying to figure out what the real issue is,
                      if it's got to do with working than, it's the husband's job to provide for the family, a muslim wife isn't supposed to go out and work unnecessarily.
                      It maybe necessary, even if its not for financial reasons may be for the sake of keeping her sanity
                      "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

                      "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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                      • #12
                        Re: my marriage is on the line

                        Originally posted by candyapple View Post
                        Ur quick tempered innit?
                        The sister doesnt have children which may be an issue in the marraige and her hubby dont want her to work.

                        u must be a bachelor, cause clearly u dont seem to understand.
                        the only issue i figured out is that he doesn't allow her to work and he is right in this.

                        i am father of four, happily married for 14 years, Alhamdulillah!
                        (i understand all these issues)
                        "Europe died in Bosnia and was buried in Syria. Bodies of innocent children washing ashore are the
                        western civilization's tombstones"


                        Rajab Tayyab Erdogan

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                        • #13
                          Re: my marriage is on the line

                          Originally posted by candyapple View Post
                          It maybe necessary, even if its not for financial reasons may be for the sake of keeping her sanity
                          maybe in the west it's necessary, in Islam there's no such thing.
                          "Europe died in Bosnia and was buried in Syria. Bodies of innocent children washing ashore are the
                          western civilization's tombstones"


                          Rajab Tayyab Erdogan

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                          • #14
                            Re: my marriage is on the line

                            Originally posted by imran1976 View Post
                            maybe in the west it's necessary, in Islam there's no such thing.
                            There is nothing wrong for a woman to work as long as the guidelines are met. And if there is a reason she is hesitating to give up her job, u should try and understand why that is first.
                            maybe she has valid reasons.

                            anyways... so do u have boys n girls? I have 2 girls n 2 boys :)
                            "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

                            "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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                            • #15
                              Re: my marriage is on the line

                              Originally posted by candyapple View Post
                              Ur quick tempered innit?
                              what else would you expect when i regularly see threads here asking for divorce over small issues.
                              divorce ain't a child's play.
                              "Europe died in Bosnia and was buried in Syria. Bodies of innocent children washing ashore are the
                              western civilization's tombstones"


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