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  • R123
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by umzy85 View Post
    Hi

    I know that getting married completes half your deen, but what happens if you never find your soulmate and you don't get married and die alone? Will you not be able to enter Jannah?


    Everyone dies alone. Married or not.


    Also, our spouses and children are not the ones who are going to send us to heaven. Its ultimately us which Allah SWT is going to judge with our good and bad deeds.

    Please don't obsess over marriage. I know society puts a lot of pressure for us to marry and have children, but thats not always what everyone wants or even has.

    Marriage is optional, not compulsory.

    If you stay away from Zina and other bad deeds, then its alright. Hey, if we have managed to keep ourselves pure for most of our life until now, then what difference does it make if we don't for the rest of our life?

    I genuinely find it strange how people are extremely depressed over it, and cannot control their urges at all. Personally, I see that as being heavily influenced by worldly affairs and media brainwashing of intimate relations and ideal images of men and women.

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  • Kiro
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by HelloEverybody View Post
    What is this concept of "soulmate"? I am bit confused about this concept
    The term soulmate is a quite redundant.

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by HelloEverybody View Post
    What is this concept of "soulmate"? I am bit confused about this concept
    Helloeverybody and somebody

    it is something to do with being with that person till you die

    don't take my word for it though because I am just a kid, don't judge me

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  • HelloEverybody
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    What is this concept of "soulmate"? I am bit confused about this concept

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Serinity View Post
    Not only to you, but everyone who wants to answer. If you want to answer, then answer.

    Up to you.
    it's a long list, don't know where to begin.

    if I want to include another human being in my life, he has to be useful right? All a woman needs is a pretty face and the rest is history they say.

    So the man, 'da husband' is required because:

    -To take me to restaurants, I always wanted someone to take me to those fancy halal restaurants.
    -To take me to different places, different countries.
    -To pay the bills
    -To cook fresh food for me daily.
    -To chase after the ice cream van, the olden golden days are gone, I just can't run after the ice cream van no more.
    - To catch spiders (obviously. that's a no brainer)
    - To fix the loo or the radiators, sometimes you need a plumber that is your mahram, otherwise

    Basically to look after me, obviously I can look after myself, but I need to be treated like a queen and that is supposed to be his job, whether he likes it or not, I have ben written for him. :zzz:

    I mean, is he seriously going to challenge the above list and his fate?

    I will treat him right and say 'hello' to him, if that's not acknowledging him, I don't know what is.

    so :1popcorn: it's all good.

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  • Futurealimah
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    What happens if you never get married?

    I was thinking like there're are some pious people who couldn't get married and it may be because Allah knew that they are very strong and can control themselves from one of the biggest sin which takes u too hell

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  • Simply_Logical
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    oh my gosh, you are such a genius
    I thought if people didn't get married they could just pretend and tell people to call them mrs :wacko:
    well i was just answering the question lool

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  • Serinity
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    are you talking to me?
    Not only to you, but everyone who wants to answer. If you want to answer, then answer.

    Up to you.

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Serinity View Post
    What is soo interesting about marriage anyway?

    What keeps your interest?

    One of the reasons I'd get married is to complete deen.
    are you talking to me?

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  • Serinity
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    What is soo interesting about marriage anyway?

    What keeps your interest?

    One of the reasons I'd get married is to complete deen.

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  • Strive
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    sorry mate I actually didn't, but at least you know it was a terrible joke?

    :rotfl:



    oh my gosh, you are such a genius
    I thought if people didn't get married they could just pretend and tell people to call them mrs :wacko:
    mehhh i'm getting too old for this.

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Strive View Post
    did you not get my joke? :(
    sorry mate I actually didn't, but at least you know it was a terrible joke?

    :rotfl:

    Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
    What happens if you never get married?

    ermmmm you stay single? lool
    oh my gosh, you are such a genius
    I thought if people didn't get married they could just pretend and tell people to call them mrs :wacko:

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  • Kiro
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    yeh, obviously I'm just a kid :1popcorn:

    Yeh, well maybe they just fall for the man, and start liking him if he looks after them well

    It's not hard to please some women, I'm sure decent muslim men with captives will be patient.
    ur a kid at heart ey?

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: What happens if you never get married?

    Originally posted by Serinity View Post
    I don't find the world... Motivating.

    LOOL
    riiiiight

    :wacko:

    the world is a MAGICAL PLACE with mysteries, mysteries of life and the oceans OMG

    it is an illusion but one that needs to be explored

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