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I'm looking to get married and went to see a girl yesterday.
The girl in question is one year older than me and educated to GCSE level, she has been working full time since leaving school. I was aware of this before going to see her and I felt quite put off initially as I'm looking for someone who is an Alima or studied to at least college level. Nonetheless we spoke and she seemed quite family and religion orientated. I thought she was quite pretty too. She doesn't know how to cook (she's learning), which my mum found surprising when I told her afterwards. She seemed quite easy going although at times she went on for a bit too long with her answers to my questions, it was as if she felt obligated to give long answers.
This is the first time I've had a face to face with anyone and I'm finding it incredibly difficult to make a decision. I'm going to do istikhara too. I'm hoping we hear back from her side first regarding a decision which will save me from having to make decision.
Anyone been in a similar situation and how did they deal with it?
I'm looking to get married and went to see a girl yesterday.
The girl in question is one year older than me and educated to GCSE level, she has been working full time since leaving school. I was aware of this before going to see her and I felt quite put off initially as I'm looking for someone who is an Alima or studied to at least college level. Nonetheless we spoke and she seemed quite family and religion orientated. I thought she was quite pretty too. She doesn't know how to cook (she's learning), which my mum found surprising when I told her afterwards. She seemed quite easy going although at times she went on for a bit too long with her answers to my questions, it was as if she felt obligated to give long answers.
This is the first time I've had a face to face with anyone and I'm finding it incredibly difficult to make a decision. I'm going to do istikhara too. I'm hoping we hear back from her side first regarding a decision which will save me from having to make decision.
Anyone been in a similar situation and how did they deal with it?
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