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  • helpp

    salam,
    i m real in a tension now a days ,need halp...i m 22 years old muslim girl from pakistan..i got a nikaah(only nikkah not rukhsati)when i was 19 years old n that was a love marrige n that nikah was taken with both side parents will...then my husband went abroad n we used to fight n there was a lot of mis understand between us...it led us to think about divorce...when my parents saw this they asked my husband to divorce me but he did not because he had not money of hakk mehr that time..then my parents went in court for khulaa (with my own will) n we got khulla from court while my husband also signed khula pepers n we become strangers again.....now we thought that was an emotional decision n we want to re merry ...now the question is..can we re merry without taking a halala or can we do this with halala..what does islam says about this? plz help me regarding this..we dont want to do zinna..thnks
    Last edited by arhoj; 08-06-12, 06:45 PM. Reason: spelling

  • #2
    Re: helpp

    Salam,

    You can go back to each other if there was only one divorce which seems like the case. However a new nikahnama and haq mehr needs to be written since the time of iddat has passed.

    Please note that marriage should be taken seriously and one should go to last resort to save it. If after this, you divorce two more times, then it is a point of no return.

    Halala is haram. There is a common misconception that after divorce and iddat has passed, one cannot marry the same person. It is on the third divorce that one cannot marry.

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    • #3
      Re: helpp

      One more thing....

      I don't think so it applies but if one gives divorce three times in one sitting, it still counts as one divorce not three.

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      • #4
        Re: helpp

        Javed Ghamidi is a very learned Islam scholar in Pakistan. Here is the

        http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfgir...feature=relmfu

        Jump to 3:30. After Iddat, they can get back.

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        • #5
          Re: helpp

          thnks 4 reply but in court judge refered me to union conciel there we spend 3 months thinking that we should take dicocrce or not ...this is not clear that this was 3 time divorce or that was 1 time...because i listened that there should be 1 month difference between 1 time divorce....plz clear me this thing

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          • #6
            Re: helpp

            Originally posted by arhoj View Post
            thnks 4 reply but in court judge refered me to union conciel there we spend 3 months thinking that we should take dicocrce or not ...this is not clear that this was 3 time divorce or that was 1 time...because i listened that there should be 1 month difference between 1 time divorce....plz clear me this thing
            this is one divorce bcos youve divorced once
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            • #7
              Re: helpp

              Yes it is one divorce. It still counts as one sitting.

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              • #8
                Re: helpp

                Did you think about those reasons for the divorce? Were they good reasons? Could the problems reappear?

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                • #9
                  Re: helpp

                  thnkss 4 reply....yes i m thinking about the reasons

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