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  • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

    Originally posted by Ibadah View Post
    Spot on, this is exactly what i have been trying to say. Please read soliloquy and Aleeza.
    I still don't get it, so we'll agree to disagree.

    The understanding of love in today's society is selfish, why don't people get this? You want the boy to care for her daughter like a Muslim would? Idk where you get the idea that such notions of decency will be found in your average person. If this were the case, the world would not be as it is. So what if he has been around Islam and seen what it is like? It comes down to the fact that he does not believe, and so we're foolish to expect better from him.

    The bigger problem, unfortunately, is Aleeza's daughter. She has had an upbringing in Islam and yet she still chooses what her nafs desires above Islam.

    I don't care if this is a troll posting or not, but this is a scenario that has occurs quite a bit.
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    O' Converter of Hearts, make my heart steadfast upon Thy Way
    We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.

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    • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

      I found it odd when people wrote I would beat the guy up, er no your daughter is messed up not the non muslim guy. Hes just living life according to his rules. WE have to Abide by Allah swt's rules.

      The daughter picks and chooses what she likes from Islam and maybe even changes i (believing she can marry a sikh because we have to move with the times)

      Close this thread, its become a joke, Aleeza needs to take the good and go on with her life..
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      ‘O Allah, forgive me, have mercy upon me, guide me, give me health and grant me sustenance.’
      “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”

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      • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

        Originally posted by Aleeza View Post
        Yeah he's not a violent person, I've never seen him raise his hand at anyone in the 20+ years that we've been married. Just as well for other people too because he's 6'6 and has been working out since he was a teen lol.

        But in all honesty any guy who is going to go beat up his daughters boyfriend has serious self-control issues. Doing that isn't going to solve anything and will just make her hate you more. I feel bad for people like that, in a fit of rage they don't even know who they are anymore.
        sorry but am i missing something here? Why are you so calm? why are you lol'ing?! is this issue funny to you? self control? there's self control and then there is something akin to giving your child a ticket to the hell fire with a smile on your face. (ahem - troll! - ahem!)
        82. Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, "be", and it is! 83. So glory to Him in Whose hands is the dominion of all things: and to Him will you be all brought back. Quran surah 36: Ya-sin

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        • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

          in times of catastophe people need humour to get them through, everyone grieves in different ways. This sister is going through the possibility that she may loose her daughter in this life AMD the akhirah, and every word she says has to be totally rational? she is a woman.

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          • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

            rational people become angry, shocked, upset. They do not laugh when they hear their daughter is planning on marrying a kafir
            82. Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, "be", and it is! 83. So glory to Him in Whose hands is the dominion of all things: and to Him will you be all brought back. Quran surah 36: Ya-sin

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            • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

              yes sometimes they do. There is no right way to act when in shock, many people laugh and make jokes about it. For example abused wives make jokes out of their situations. I have seen this. When something is too uneblievable and weird to even comprehend, yet is happening to you. Then it is quite normal to laugh.

              http://www.healthboards.com/boards/p...er-trauma.html

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              • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                Originally posted by sushi View Post
                .....& she is still defending that kafir guy.
                She's not. She did that initially, though, I think she has stopped after being told off.

                And, unfortunately, the 7 pages of advice has not really helped. People can mention different ways to get her to stop, but guidance only comes from Allah.

                She (the daughter) needs to be told and make sure it goes through her head that there's no concept, there never was any concept of marrying a kafir being permissible. It's kufr to believe that. She can make her own religion, but it is not Islam.
                Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                  Maybe her mother should show her this thread. Might knock a bit of sense into her.
                  SPREAD OF EVIL
                  ZIONISM
                  BOLLYWOOD

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                  • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                    a very delicate situation, and I was really saddened by some of the advice.

                    What country are you from sister?
                    ‎"Listen with the ears of tolerance. See through the eyes of compassion. Speak with the language of love."
                    Rumi RahimuAllah.

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                    • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                      If this story is true, then Aleeza is the girls sister as I dont think a parent would be lolling. The parent would have a heart attack especially if they brought their children up with Islamic values and education.

                      The mum and dad would be in hospital.
                      My ♥ only lets الله‎ in
                      ‘O Allah, forgive me, have mercy upon me, guide me, give me health and grant me sustenance.’
                      “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”

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                      • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                        Originally posted by Soliloquy View Post

                        I don't care if this is a troll posting or not, but this is a scenario that has occurs quite a bit.
                        does it?

                        is there an epidemic of muslim girls who wear hijab and pray wanting to marry kafir men?

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                        • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                          Originally posted by -Shamil- View Post
                          does it?

                          is there an epidemic of muslim girls who wear hijab and pray wanting to marry kafir men?
                          You'd be surprised but the Islamic education thing is shocking...you'd think a person would learn a thing or to
                          My ♥ only lets الله‎ in
                          ‘O Allah, forgive me, have mercy upon me, guide me, give me health and grant me sustenance.’
                          “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”

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                          • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                            Originally posted by Fairy View Post
                            You'd be surprised but the Islamic education thing is shocking...you'd think a person would learn a thing or to
                            i know hijabis who have boyfriends but this story is a whole different ball game - actually marrying a kafir and justifying it too - i dont think thats all that common personally

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                            • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                              I know girls who have married Hindus and converted to hinduism. Trust me it happens.

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                              • Re: My daughter is marrying a non-Muslim man!!

                                Originally posted by naila-k View Post
                                I know girls who have married Hindus and converted to hinduism. Trust me it happens.

                                thats a different situation - as i said above, im talking about "practicing" muslim women who try to justify their marriage to a kafir through islam

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