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    it looks like i am never going to get married, i have no job, no career, my house is small. I liked a guy alot but he rejected me for another girl. why is this happening to me

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    Re: Im never guna get married

    Originally posted by riley105 View Post
    it looks like i am never going to get married, i have no job, no career, my house is small. I liked a guy alot but he rejected me for another girl. why is this happening to me
    Aaww!Don't say that! Maybe you got rejected bc maybe Allah was protecting you from a bad future! Also you cant give up now! Allah is the best of planners! Have you been making duaas a lot lately?
    Last edited by mizzprincess98; 02-06-12, 09:56 AM.

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      Re: Im never guna get married

      hi what do you mean by bad future?

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      • #4
        Re: Im never guna get married

        Originally posted by riley105 View Post
        it looks like i am never going to get married, i have no job, no career, my house is small. I liked a guy alot but he rejected me for another girl. why is this happening to me
        You are correct, you are never going to get married, nor get a job, or a career and you are going to live in your small house for ever and ever!

        If you want to get married, go about it in the correct way, talk to your parents or wali and see what they can do to help you find someone.

        As for work there is not a lot about but if you are prepared to do anything (halal, of course) you can find some work, and once working you will start to hear about better jobs, that are not advertised. If people see that you work hard, do the job properly and are reliable, you will start to get offers of work.

        Like most of our problems and issues, pray to Allah, make dua and then go to work on yourself, study the obligations of a Muslim wife, sort out your cv (best to have one for any specialist area you are looking for work and a general one for general jobs) and look on internet about 1 hour every other day and bookmark the good sites like directgov.com, local paper and specialist press and job sites etc

        Remember your 5 daily prayers, and make plenty of dua.

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          Re: Im never guna get married

          Originally posted by abubakarbristol View Post
          You are correct, you are never going to get married, nor get a job, or a career and you are going to live in your small house for ever and ever!

          If you want to get married, go about it in the correct way, talk to your parents or wali and see what they can do to help you find someone.

          As for work there is not a lot about but if you are prepared to do anything (halal, of course) you can find some work, and once working you will start to hear about better jobs, that are not advertised. If people see that you work hard, do the job properly and are reliable, you will start to get offers of work.

          Like most of our problems and issues, pray to Allah, make dua and then go to work on yourself, study the obligations of a Muslim wife, sort out your cv (best to have one for any specialist area you are looking for work and a general one for general jobs) and look on internet about 1 hour every other day and bookmark the good sites like directgov.com, local paper and specialist press and job sites etc

          Remember your 5 daily prayers, and make plenty of dua.
          Maybe it is just from what I've seen , but it is harder for a lot of females to get a GOOD soulmate than males.

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            Re: Im never guna get married

            Originally posted by mizzprincess98 View Post
            Maybe it is just from what I've seen , but it is harder for a lot of females to get a GOOD soulmate than males.
            It is quite possible that you are correct here, but I wouldn't be sure.

            The Sister has recently started a thread on her pre-marital relationship with a boy who left her to marry someone else; therefore I advised her to try getting married the correct way which might give here a better chance of success.

            My advice to anyone wanting or thinking of getting married is to have a look at the responsibilities of being married, so they have some idea of what they are aiming at.
            Last edited by abubakarbristol; 02-06-12, 11:11 AM.

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              Re: Im never guna get married

              :salams

              Allah will help the one who have the intention to marry. That's a duty Allah has placed on Himself. But I agree with abubakarbristol: stop making Zina! How could you ask for help by ignoring Allahs law and don't care about it?

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                Re: Im never guna get married

                Originally posted by mizzprincess98 View Post
                Maybe it is just from what I've seen , but it is harder for a lot of females to get a GOOD soulmate than males.
                Why are you thinking that?

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                • #9
                  Re: Im never guna get married

                  Sister, I dont mean to sound harsh but I can count on one hand the amount of people I know who actually succeeded in marrying someone that they had a relationship with beforehand. Out of these even fewer are still married. I think it maybe has to do with the amount of respect they have for each other as if you start a relationship in the incorrect manner then it makes it harder for it to get off the ground let alone blossom into a grt marriage.

                  Do not lose heart coz you lost out on one guy. When you are completely ready for marriage then Allah will bless you with one:)

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                  • #10
                    Re: Im never guna get married

                    Dnt worry sis allah will help u inshallah

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                    • #11
                      Re: Im never guna get married

                      Originally posted by riley105 View Post
                      it looks like i am never going to get married, i have no job, no career, my house is small. I liked a guy alot but he rejected me for another girl. why is this happening to me
                      so you're a sister? you really dont need all of these to get married. just be focused on your deen and talk to your parents about marriage inshaAllah
                      The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing)” (3:185)

                      Avoid excessive laughter and useless arguments as they harden the heart and lead to heedlessness.

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                        Re: Im never guna get married

                        Originally posted by riley105 View Post
                        it looks like i am never going to get married, i have no job, no career, my house is small. I liked a guy alot but he rejected me for another girl. why is this happening to me
                        me too but i am a guy.

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                          Re: Im never guna get married

                          Originally posted by MoMo. View Post
                          me too but i am a guy.
                          your screwed

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                          • #14
                            Re: Im never guna get married

                            Originally posted by -Shamil- View Post
                            your screwed
                            lol pretty much. Alhamdulillah.

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                              Re: Im never guna get married

                              Originally posted by MoMo. View Post
                              lol pretty much. Alhamdulillah.
                              hahaha dont worry, youll find a beautiful pious wife inshallah

                              i didnt have any of those things (well i did have a job - but it was v. low paid though enjoyable) and i found someone who didnt care about all those things - she was the first sister ive ever met who didnt care about how much money i had or how much i earned - il make dua for you too inshallah

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