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Im not too sure if this has been asked before or brought up in any other threads. We have alot of threads about compromise and unrealistic expectations, cross cultural marriages etc. But I wanted to ask a question which is probably relevant to alot of muslims, born or revert, who live in very isolated communities and have no contacts through which to seek out potentials.
Would people in such situations be willing to compromise a bit more than others, as they know its hard to find potential spouses? Of course it is Allah swt who brings people together, but it is alot harder for those without any contacts. If you were willing to compromise a bit more, what would you compromise on and what wouldnt you?
Im not too sure if this has been asked before or brought up in any other threads. We have alot of threads about compromise and unrealistic expectations, cross cultural marriages etc. But I wanted to ask a question which is probably relevant to alot of muslims, born or revert, who live in very isolated communities and have no contacts through which to seek out potentials.
Would people in such situations be willing to compromise a bit more than others, as they know its hard to find potential spouses? Of course it is Allah swt who brings people together, but it is alot harder for those without any contacts. If you were willing to compromise a bit more, what would you compromise on and what wouldnt you?
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