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  • #61
    Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

    Originally posted by Revertbrother View Post
    I am not exposing my sin akhi.... :rotfl:
    i was sitting in office without any work wen I wrote it....

    I DON'T inappropriately interact EVER!!
    I have to work on my SOH, its getting pathetic day by day.....
    :nonono:

    but :jkk: for the advice......:)


    whats SOH?
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    • #62
      Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

      Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post


      whats SOH?
      why the smack?
      SOH = Sense of humor....

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      • #63
        Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

        Originally posted by Revertbrother View Post
        why the smack?
        SOH = Sense of humor....
        Why have you got to make me look like a Noob?

        :jkk:
        Last edited by Saif-Uddin; 19-06-14, 07:25 PM.
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        • #64
          Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

          Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
          Why have you got to make me look like a Noob?

          :jkk:
          lool.. it's OK akhi.....
          even I am not aware about a lot of slangs......
          keep visiting my posts and u will keep learning... :smokin:

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          • #65
            Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

            What do you mean by protective jealousy?

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            • #66
              Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

              Originally posted by thatgirlZahraa View Post
              What do you mean by protective jealousy?
              this is called Gahyraah in Islam,

              meaning the Man who has Ghayraah doesn't like his wife sweet talking, or chatting with Non-Mahrams/Exposing her beauty etc to Non-Mahrams,

              for more info ... http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/in...cles&id=158774

              a Man who doesn't have Ghayraah is a Dayyuth, a despicable being, who should be avoided like the plague.

              :jkk:
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              • #67
                Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

                Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                this is called Gahyraah in Islam,

                meaning the Man who has Ghayraah doesn't like his wife sweet talking, or chatting with Non-Mahrams/Exposing her beauty etc to Non-Mahrams,

                for more info ... http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/in...cles&id=158774

                a Man who doesn't have Ghayraah is a Dayyuth, a despicable being, who should be avoided like the plague.

                :jkk:
                I'm confused, is "ghayra" specifically for men?

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                • #68
                  Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

                  Originally posted by thatgirlZahraa View Post
                  I'm confused, is "ghayra" specifically for men?
                  No, it's for both, as far as I am aware.

                  this thread is about Men, hence the warning,

                  if you find women who don't care if their prospective Husband is a Ladies man, chit-chatting freely to Non-Mehrem Women, such Women should be avoided as well.

                  :jkk:
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                  • #69
                    Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

                    Originally posted by thatgirlZahraa View Post
                    I'm confused, is "ghayra" specifically for men?
                    It's not specifically for men. "Ghayra" means a protective jealousy. The reason it's emphasized on men so much is because they have the leadership roles over women such as head of houselhold, Caliph, etc.
                    Therefore, they are responsible for the women in their care, so Ghayra is a must for men.

                    Not saying it isn't a must for women (women need to have ghayra for their husband, children, deen, etc) but men have more responsibilities in this regard so it's usually referenced at men,
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                    • #70
                      Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

                      Originally posted by Grimmjow View Post
                      It's not specifically for men. "Ghayra" means a protective jealousy. The reason it's emphasized on men so much is because they have the leadership roles over women such as head of houselhold, Caliph, etc.
                      Therefore, they are responsible for the women in their care, so Ghayra is a must for men.

                      Not saying it isn't a must for women (women need to have ghayra for their husband, children, deen, etc) but men have more responsibilities in this regard so it's usually referenced at men,
                      :brf:
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                      • #71
                        Re: Avoid marrying these types of Men

                        Originally posted by Abu Haneefah View Post
                        :smilet-digitalpoint

                        salam wa laikum, while looking for all the other characteristics in a spouse. dont marry a psychopath! people with experiences with these type of people have regretted their whole life dont make the mistake.. it is extremely difficult to spot a psychopath however below i will share some things that may help you spot one, obviously dont look at one characteristic and think someones a psychopath. however you still can build successful relationship with one.

                        interesting facts
                        - On average, a person walks past 7 psychopaths a day.
                        - Psychopathic characteristics can be seen in childhood
                        - Psychopaths cannot be spotted (they will seem cooperative and friendly)
                        - Psychopaths are seven times more likely than other criminals to commit stranger murders; twice as likely to commit other stranger crimes
                        - Internet Trolls Are Psychopaths
                        - Lawyers are the second most "psychopathic" profession in the world after CEOs
                        - A Lot of Socio/Psychopaths Wet the Bed as Kids
                        - People With Autism are NOT Psycopaths


                        characteristics of a psychopath
                        - Superficial charm and average intelligence.
                        - Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking.
                        - Absence of nervousness or neurotic manifestations.
                        - Unreliability.
                        - Untruthfulness and insincerity.
                        - Lack of remorse or shame.
                        - Antisocial behavior without apparent compunction.
                        - Poor judgement and failure to learn from experience.
                        - Pathological egocentricity and incapacity to love.
                        - General poverty in major affective reactions.
                        - Specific loss of insight.
                        - Unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations.
                        - Fantastic and uninviting behavior with drink, and sometimes without.
                        - Suicide threats rarely carried out.
                        - Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated.
                        - Failure to follow any life plan.
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