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  • Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

    Alsalamo Alikom .. as the title says Brothers and Sister :)

    For a British Male living in London .. where should HE start looking .. and what are the best halal ways to find a wife?

    What do you think? What would you recommend?

    Your REPLIES ARE VERY MUCH APPRECIATED :) :) :)



    P.S YES U... Don't just view the topic :D reply to it :D

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    Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

    This type of question has been asked and answered many times over brother - do a search on this topic and you'd get ur answer, ie...ask ur imam for recommendations, family members, friends etc etc etc!

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    • #3
      Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

      Matalan/BHS/Pak Supermarket/A1 Supermarket.
      Rajab is a month of cultivation, Shaban is month of irrigating the fields, and the month of Ramadhan is a month of reaping and harvesting.”

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      • #4
        Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

        Originally posted by Medievalist View Post
        Matalan/BHS/Pak Supermarket/A1 Supermarket.
        Like for your brother what you like for yourself akhi!!
        وَالْعَصْرِ

        إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ

        إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالصَّبْرِ

        "If Allah (swt) only sent this Surah to us, for the guidance of Mankind, this will be enough for us” - Imam Shaafi'ee r.a.

        "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

        Khanqah Habibiyah

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        • #5
          Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

          Originally posted by Jenicca View Post
          Like for your brother what you like for yourself akhi!!
          gud advice.

          in that case marry a random cousin you haven't seen since the age of 11 and only see/speak to her after your nikah is done and yr mother-in-law takes you to see her. **outta**
          Rajab is a month of cultivation, Shaban is month of irrigating the fields, and the month of Ramadhan is a month of reaping and harvesting.”

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          • #6
            Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

            If you are a british male with immigrant parents you should have them ask around the other families they know. If not, then try mosques. Some mosques even have a matchmaking service. How about asking your close male friends if they could recommend someone.
            Therefore remember Me, I will remember you, And be thankful to Me, and do not be ungrateful to Me." [Qur'an 2:152]
            Behold in the Remembrance of Allah do hearts find satisfaction."
            [Al Quran 13:28]
            ]

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            • #7
              Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

              Originally posted by Abuhamza777 View Post
              Alsalamo Alikom .. as the title says Brothers and Sister :)

              For a British Male living in London .. where should HE start looking .. and what are the best halal ways to find a wife?

              What do you think? What would you recommend?

              Your REPLIES ARE VERY MUCH APPRECIATED :) :) :)



              P.S YES U... Don't just view the topic :D reply to it :D
              If you are from a Muslim family, start there, if not try Muslim friends (married ones are better generally because their wives will have friends and family and there are many women who love to matchmake) and talk to your Imam.

              Check yourself out, your responsibilities as a husband, are you ready for marriage, are you offering a prospective bride the best husband you can be?

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              • #8
                Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                Originally posted by Medievalist View Post
                gud advice.

                in that case marry a random cousin you haven't seen since the age of 11 and only see/speak to her after your nikah is done and yr mother-in-law takes you to see her. **outta**
                Oh gosh don't tell me you're one of them ones too..
                Allah will ask on the Day of Judgment: “Where are those who loved each other for the sake of My glory? Today, on a day when there is no shade but Mine, I shall shade them with My shade.”(Muslim)

                "Zendagi Migzara..."

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                • #9
                  Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                  The first place to start looking for a pious spouse is in your prayers in the depth of the night.

                  It is the way of life that the sweetest of pleasures and best of blessings often come after the most bitterest of deprivations. Ask Allah swt to make means for you and open paths for you.

                  What is decreed will be, but SubhanAllah what is decreed by Allah swt is better than the best of our dreams.
                  وَالْعَصْرِ

                  إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ

                  إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالصَّبْرِ

                  "If Allah (swt) only sent this Surah to us, for the guidance of Mankind, this will be enough for us” - Imam Shaafi'ee r.a.

                  "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

                  Khanqah Habibiyah

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                  • #10
                    Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                    Originally posted by Medievalist View Post
                    Matalan/BHS/Pak Supermarket/A1 Supermarket.
                    This is Harsh Bro. :D Samahak Allah ...

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                    • #11
                      Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                      Originally posted by Jenicca View Post
                      The first place to start looking for a pious spouse is in your prayers in the depth of the night.

                      It is the way of life that the sweetest of pleasures and best of blessings often come after the most bitterest of deprivations. Ask Allah swt to make means for you and open paths for you.

                      What is decreed will be, but SubhanAllah what is decreed by Allah swt is better than the best of our dreams.
                      Very True Sister .. Jazaki Allah Khairan

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                      • #12
                        Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                        Brother, you're in London, and you don't know where to look for a wife?

                        I'm sure there will be a few muslim matrimonial agencies around your area..definitely somewhere in the city of London..!!

                        Like the posters said above, make dua, ask the Imam of your area, as well as surrounding areas..

                        Think about yourself as well, see if you have the emotional capacity to be able to deal with a partner, and everything that comes with it, for the rest of your life..

                        May Allah make it easy for all of us..
                        وَإِذَا قِيلَ لَهُمۡ ءَامِنُواْ كَمَآ ءَامَنَ ٱلنَّاسُ قَالُوٓاْ أَنُؤۡمِنُ كَمَآ ءَامَنَ ٱلسُّفَهَآءُ*ۗ أَلَآ إِنَّهُمۡ هُمُ ٱلسُّفَهَآءُ وَلَـٰكِن لَّا يَعۡلَمُونَ


                        And when it is said unto them: believe as the people believe, they say: Shall we believe as the foolish believe? Beware! They indeed are the foolish? But they know not.
                        Al Baqarah : Verse 13

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                        • #13
                          Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                          Originally posted by Jenicca View Post
                          The first place to start looking for a pious spouse is in your prayers in the depth of the night.

                          It is the way of life that the sweetest of pleasures and best of blessings often come after the most bitterest of deprivations. Ask Allah swt to make means for you and open paths for you.

                          What is decreed will be, but SubhanAllah what is decreed by Allah swt is better than the best of our dreams.
                          Beautiful true post.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                            hmmm primark is a good place pak foods aldi i would not advice you too go to the mosque as a black man the indians would turn you down flat hmmm erm dnt know good luck

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                            • #15
                              Re: Okay READY to start looking for a WIFE ... BUT..WHERE?!?

                              Your masjid maybe ask your friends if they have sisters/cousins.

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