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  • #76
    Re: Girl with a past

    Originally posted by humblebrother1 View Post
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7UJVVsIS8A
    so have you made up your mind up now inshallah?

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    • #77
      Re: Girl with a past

      Originally posted by muslimah_rose View Post
      so have you made up your mind up now inshallah?
      Have not. The girl is good now, the past isn't. Maybe I should man up and accept it.

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      • #78
        Sounds gud but Please be certain in ur decision as if u marry with an uncomfortable feeling, u'll ruin her life and chances of u having a gud relationship

        Did u do istikhara?

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        • #79
          Re: Girl with a past

          Originally posted by humblebrother1 View Post
          Have not. The girl is good now, the past isn't. Maybe I should man up and accept it.

          remember that its history, wiped out in the book of allah if shes repented to him and changed her ways inshallah, if shes pious and that attracts you then go for it, if you find her less pious than others around her, then go for the MOST pious woman there, PIETY, RIGHTEOUSNESS, HER RELIGION is the key to the BEST WIFE. the more god-fearing she is, the more happy you'll be as she'll be obediant to you and love you alone and fear allah in the matter of being CHASTE.

          and with this sister, if shes left her past, and regrets it then i can guarantee you 100% shes forgotton those men, and instead despises them now, a woman cannot love more than ONE man at a time, so if she will develop love with you inshallah after marriage then you have nothing to worry about her thinking of those men.

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          • #80
            Re: Girl with a past

            Give yourself time to accept it. don't move forward until you have accepted fully

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            • #81
              Re: Girl with a past

              Originally posted by humblebrother1 View Post
              Have not. The girl is good now, the past isn't. Maybe I should man up and accept it.
              If you think past isn't good, that means you are concerned about the past, which is a bad sign. Brother, please, you really need to be sure how much the past matters to you.

              Don't ruin her life, because no woman wants to be in a marriage where her husband is thinking about her sinful past. She'd rather be single.
              Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

              "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
              - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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              • #82
                Re: Girl with a past

                Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                If you think past isn't good, that means you are concerned about the past, which is a bad sign. Brother, please, you really need to be sure how much the past matters to you.

                Don't ruin her life, because no woman wants to be in a marriage where her husband is thinking about her sinful past. She'd rather be single.
                Yes your right.

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