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  • For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

    Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway
    لا أريد مِنْكُمْ جَزَاء وَلا شُكُورًا

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    <_<
    Screaming, But Will Never Be Heard

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    • #3
      Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

      Is this spam :scratch:
      وَالْعَصْرِ

      إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَفِي خُسْرٍ

      إِلَّا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالْحَقِّ وَتَوَاصَوْا بِالصَّبْرِ

      "If Allah (swt) only sent this Surah to us, for the guidance of Mankind, this will be enough for us” - Imam Shaafi'ee r.a.

      "Yeh dunya daar e faani hain, Tum apna dil mat lagaon, Ganimat samaj zinadagee ki bahar, aana na hoga, yahaa baar baar......"

      Khanqah Habibiyah

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      • #4
        Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

        Originally posted by truepath View Post
        Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway
        What she gonna take?? if you have a big heart you won't be afraid to give.

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          Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

          :salams

          :jkk: Now, I know who not to come for advice after marriage. :D


          :insha:
          Give the best of you to her
          and keep the bad to you
          Take the best of her
          and ignore the bad of her

          :masha: I'm poet and I didn't even know it.
          Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

          "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
          - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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          • #6
            Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

            Originally posted by truepath View Post
            Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway
            yupp..thats how the credit card transfers to my purse usually
            Mrs B

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            • #7
              Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

              Marriage is not just a relationship between two people, it is a relationship between each person and Allah swt. You give and expect reward from Him. Then you never tire of giving and you never expect in return. Because you are not giving for the sake of another person or for the sake of getting something in return. You are giving for His sake and expect your return in the hereafter.

              The Muslim can never lose. If he does everything he can good for another person and gets nothing back from them, he is patient and is rewarded. If he gets back in return he is thankful and rewarded. Alhamdulillah.
              Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the Dominion, and He is Able to do all things. (67.1)

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                Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

                Unintended innuendo I hope :evilb:

                Imam AbdulLatif ibn AbdurRahman rahimullah said, "It is not possible for someone to realize Tawheed and act upon it, and yet not be hostile against the mushrikeen. So anyone who isn't hostile against the mushrikeen, then it can't be said that he acts upon Tawheed, nor that he realizes it." [ad-Durar as-Saniyyah 8/167]

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                  :salaams
                  :masha: I'm poet and I didn't even know it.
                  Ws
                  Ur not a poet. U rhymed her with her 3 times
                  Screaming, But Will Never Be Heard

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                  • #10
                    Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

                    A poem doesn't have to rhyme.
                    Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                    "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                    - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                    • #11
                      Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

                      Originally posted by truepath View Post
                      Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway
                      I wonder what Fis has to say about this!
                      Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                      :salams

                      :jkk: Now, I know who not to come for advice after marriage. :D


                      :insha:
                      Give the best of you to her
                      and keep the bad to you
                      Take the best of her
                      and ignore the bad of her

                      :masha: I'm poet and I didn't even know it.
                      :wswrwb:

                      Do you specialise in freshie poetry?
                      It is narrated on the authority of Jabir that he heard the (Holy Prophet)[:saw:] say: A Muslim is he from whose hand and tongue the Muslims are safe.
                      -Muslim



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                      • #12
                        Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

                        Originally posted by truepath View Post
                        Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway
                        lol!
                        True secret to staying married: BOTH gotta give and take in EVERYTHING.

                        PLUS, dont marry someone just to get married. In other words don't settle. Be picky. You want to make this count so that you stay married the first time around, for eternity. Just because your spouse fears Allah (seriously most muslims fit in this category), it does not mean this is enough. You gotta be compatible with each other. Just sayyin....
                        :1peace:
                        The fragrance stays in the hand that gives the rose.

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                        • #13
                          Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

                          true^
                          أشهد أن لا إله إلاَّ الله و أشهد أن محمد رسول الله

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                          • #14
                            Re: For a successful marriage - Words of wisdom. Marriage is give and take....

                            true, it is about balance. some girls though are really high maintenance. it's disgusting the lengths they go through. sometimes some poor guy marries a girl and doesn't look into how she is as a person, decent, educated etc. then eventually when he can't keep giving to her demands she causes arguments, and even heard the odd one or two case of her telling her brothers who go and beat him up etc. it's just utterly sickening and so wrong. i don't know why some families have that, just can't understand why, i mean i know the men in my family would never ever do that at all! of course they protect you, but this sort of thing is not justified.
                            DO NOT PRIVATE MESSAGE IF YOU DON'T KNOW ME.

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