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    Re: Why can't people get married?

    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
    Ok
    ok muzzy ok lol
    Surah Taha, Verse 69:

    وَأَلْقِ مَا فِي يَمِينِكَ تَلْقَفْ مَا صَنَعُوا إِنَّمَا صَنَعُوا كَيْدُ سَاحِرٍ وَلَا يُفْلِحُ السَّاحِرُ حَيْثُ أَتَىٰ

    "And throw that which is in your right hand! It will swallow up that which they have made. That which they have made is only a magician's trick,
    and the magician will never be successful, no matter whatever amount (of skill) he may attain."

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      Re: Why can't people get married?

      Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
      Did they first exchange details ?
      :salams

      A little late, but what do you mean by exchange detail?

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        Re: Why can't people get married?

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        Last edited by Rifqah; 27-10-17, 08:48 PM.

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          Re: Why can't people get married?

          Peeps aren't really clear what they want from other person, or who they are...Growing pains
          Marriage is life long journey, which isn't picnic in the park. It is path which two of you share sunshine and rainy days, looking shelter within each other against this cold dunyah. Sometimes we don't get what we want, but Allah SWT gives you one you need. Alhamdulillah.

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            Re: Why can't people get married?

            Tick tock
            Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

            "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
            - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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              Re: Why can't people get married?

              Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
              ok muzzy ok lol
              Ok simply_ok ok :)
              Originally posted by Winter View Post
              :salams

              A little late, but what do you mean by exchange detail?

              Nah bro just saying if they rejected you knowing that you are in a different country but asking details after ,then using distance as an excuse then thats not the issue is it.

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                Re: Why can't people get married?

                I wonder how many of these people have gotten married by now.

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                  Re: Why can't people get married?

                  Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                  Ok simply_ok ok :)



                  Nah bro just saying if they rejected you knowing that you are in a different country but asking details after ,then using distance as an excuse then thats not the issue is it.
                  Oh, no they never asked detail lol that's the thing. The only one girl asked if I would move there lol

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                    Re: Why can't people get married?

                    Definitely a money issue for me, I could have got married at least a year ago if it wasn't for money problems. Doesn't matter.

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                      Re: Why can't people get married?

                      Parents on both sides have sky rocket expectations.

                      Muslims have become materialistic.

                      They want security. We need security that our daughter will be fine with you. Financial security.

                      Many times the girl is on it too.

                      Money. Money. Money.

                      The saying is true: Zinaa is cheap and marriage is expensive.

                      Materialistic people looking for security need to concentrate on the best example for mankind, the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam)


                      Ibn 'Abbas said:

                      " The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) would spend many consecutive nights and his family did not have supper, and most of the time their bread was barley bread."

                      [Jaami al-Tirmidhi Hadith No. 2360]



                      There is no security for anyone. Anyone who thinks security exists is deluded. They are misguided.


                      Indeed, Allah [alone] has knowledge of the Hour and sends down the rain and knows what is in the wombs. And no soul perceives what it will earn tomorrow, and no soul perceives in what land it will die. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.

                      [Qur'aan 31:34]
                      Watch those eyes

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                        Re: Why can't people get married?

                        It's not always about money or job ..etc ( materialistic stuff)


                        If I wanna talk about the spouces themselves i.e character. I would say: It's lack of good spouses

                        majority of ppl ( men& women) overlook many bad/ not ok with qualities in potentials to get married ..
                        How merciful Allah on me by giving me respite,and I persist in my sins and Allah shields me

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                          Re: Why can't people get married?

                          Originally posted by Juvegirl View Post
                          As salaamualeikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu,

                          Hello Muslim peeps!

                          I keep hearing about women who can't get married and men who can't get married and I keep thinking - why not? What is preventing people from getting married?

                          Comments! Suggestions!
                          Because I'm poor, lazy and unmotivated.

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                            Re: Why can't people get married?

                            Because of parents who put unreasonable cultural pressure on their sons. It's heartbreaking.

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                              Re: Why can't people get married?

                              Originally posted by Rifqah View Post
                              Because of parents who put unreasonable cultural pressure on their sons. It's heartbreaking.
                              It's not heartbreaking, people are getting married all the time. Perhaps this forum just attracts those that are struggling so it gives a distorted picture.

                              Just like when I first joined the forum it did not lake long for me to notice that there were a disproportionate number of divorced sisters or divorced and then remarried here. For me at least in the real world most people I know are either single or married just once.

                              On a forum more often than not you'll only here about those that are complaining.

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                                Re: Why can't people get married?

                                Originally posted by ZeeshanParvez View Post
                                Parents on both sides have sky rocket expectations.

                                Muslims have become materialistic.

                                They want security. We need security that our daughter will be fine with you. Financial security.

                                Many times the girl is on it too.

                                Money. Money. Money.

                                The saying is true: Zinaa is cheap and marriage is expensive.

                                Materialistic people looking for security need to concentrate on the best example for mankind, the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam)


                                Ibn 'Abbas said:

                                " The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) would spend many consecutive nights and his family did not have supper, and most of the time their bread was barley bread."

                                [Jaami al-Tirmidhi Hadith No. 2360]



                                There is no security for anyone. Anyone who thinks security exists is deluded. They are misguided.


                                Indeed, Allah [alone] has knowledge of the Hour and sends down the rain and knows what is in the wombs. And no soul perceives what it will earn tomorrow, and no soul perceives in what land it will die. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.

                                [Qur'aan 31:34]
                                :jkk: akhi true a job is no security, nor is wealth,

                                Allah عز و جل can easily take it away.

                                It is Allah عز و جل who gives us peace and security,

                                Not the job, the employer or anyone or anything else.
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