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  • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

    Originally posted by khadijacam View Post
    Ok, that all sounds so great in an IDEAL world, but the reality is if a man is married to a woman, he will sleep with her deeni or not. Common sense. How else will they have children?
    You have to look past that aspect. There's more to marriage than just that, and those sisters in successful polygamous marriages realize that.
    Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

    "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
    - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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      Sisters, please be reminded that you shouldn't insult one another. Just agree to disagree, or place the other on ignore. You shouldn't allow yourself to type insults, because it will only give you sins.
      مَّن ذَا الَّذِي يُقْرِضُ اللّهَ قَرْضًا حَسَنًا فَيُضَاعِفَهُ لَهُ أَضْعَافًا كَثِيرَةً وَاللّهُ يَقْبِضُ وَيَبْسُطُ وَإِلَيْهِ تُرْجَعُونَ

      "Who is he that will loan to Allah a beautiful loan, which Allah will double unto his credit and multiply many times?
      It is Allah that giveth (you) Want or plenty, and to Him shall be your return."
      Surah al-Baqarah
      [2:245]

      .:.
      .:. Perfer et Obdura : Dolor Hic Tibi Proderit Olim .:.
      Be patient and strong : someday this pain will be useful to you

      .:.
      ...said the spider to the fly...

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      • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

        Originally posted by khadijacam View Post
        Ok, that all sounds so great in an IDEAL world, but the reality is if a man is married to a woman, he will sleep with her deeni or not. Common sense. How else will they have children?
        LoL get married before you make these judgements.
        seriously your very very childish. remember the prophet :saw: was a revert and all the prophets. so think before you right off reverts
        And He found you lost and guided you,
        ~ Qur'an (Ad Duhaa) 93:7 ~

        Salaah Reminders

        Guide us to the straight pain.
        " Ihdina-s-sirata-l-mustaqim "
        ~ Quran 1:6 ~

        الله أعلم

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        • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

          there is only one person i need to win points with and i crave those points my life depends on it

          ALLAAH !!!!!
          And He found you lost and guided you,
          ~ Qur'an (Ad Duhaa) 93:7 ~

          Salaah Reminders

          Guide us to the straight pain.
          " Ihdina-s-sirata-l-mustaqim "
          ~ Quran 1:6 ~

          الله أعلم

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          • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

            Originally posted by wahbieisam View Post
            Polygamy is adultery period really If a man takes another wife , he commits adultery against his first wife, he also causes the second wife to commit adultery by interfering with the first marriage
            Polygamy is "legal" adultery plain and simple. No other way bout it. A mistress is another woman and and a 2nd wife is also another woman. People like to sugarcoat it with all these deeni sayings but that is the bottom line. I am sure many of the western mistresses would certainly love to become a 2nd wife if western men could practice polygamy. Whether you are a man's mistress or second wife, you are still with another woman's husband. A 2nd wife is just when a man makes his mistress his wife. What makes a man look for a 2nd if he is very much in love with his first wife? What makes a man go to the extent of tying himself to another woman for life if he didn't fall in love with her? A 2nd wife doesn't just fall from the sky. The man has to be looking and if he was content with his first he wouldn't purposely go looking.

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              May Allaah guide you to the right path Ameen
              And He found you lost and guided you,
              ~ Qur'an (Ad Duhaa) 93:7 ~

              Salaah Reminders

              Guide us to the straight pain.
              " Ihdina-s-sirata-l-mustaqim "
              ~ Quran 1:6 ~

              الله أعلم

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              • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

                Fear Allah, sister. You're calling His law adultery?

                May Allah guide you, increase you in knowledge of His deen, and forgive you.

                And, by Allah, I am not trying to appear pious or putting up an act.
                Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

                  Originally posted by khadijacam View Post
                  Polygamy is "legal" adultery plain and simple.
                  Aouthibillah
                  "Do not let your hatred of a people incite you to aggression." Qur'an 5:2

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                  • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

                    Ameen
                    And He found you lost and guided you,
                    ~ Qur'an (Ad Duhaa) 93:7 ~

                    Salaah Reminders

                    Guide us to the straight pain.
                    " Ihdina-s-sirata-l-mustaqim "
                    ~ Quran 1:6 ~

                    الله أعلم

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                    • Re: Secret 2nd wives and double lives

                      Astaghfirullah, thread closed

                      Please keep your assumptions about other Muslims/Muslimah's motives for saying/doing certain things to yourself.
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