salaam everyone
i was hoping someone could give some advice. me and my husband have been married for a year now, we have a great relationship alhamdulillah, no problems whatsoever, we are both still students, living with his parents, both working on and off around our studies...
My husband recived a letter recently, when i asked he wouldnt tell me what it was about.. i couln't help myself and had a look whilst he was out (really bad, i kno). the letter was from a bank about money he owed them
my husband is the type of person who doesnt like to share his problems (until it gets really badly apparrent and he has no choice) so i dont know if he's going to ever address the issue, i dont want to tell him i know, because i dont kno how he'll feel about me reading his mail...
i feel like banging my head against a wall, we haven't even finished paying his course fees yet and he has massive student loan from before we got married (that he thinks i don't know about). he is such a great guy, he looks after me well and is always concerned about me, but yet i i feel so mad with him...why doesnt he just say if he has a problem, if i can manage with what we make, than why cant he? when i'm trying so hard not to overspend and to save,why borrow from banks? i dont want a dunya issue to affect our relationship but i dnot want to ignore it either.. i want to work with him to resolve the issue but dnt know how to approach the subject...?
i was hoping someone could give some advice. me and my husband have been married for a year now, we have a great relationship alhamdulillah, no problems whatsoever, we are both still students, living with his parents, both working on and off around our studies...
My husband recived a letter recently, when i asked he wouldnt tell me what it was about.. i couln't help myself and had a look whilst he was out (really bad, i kno). the letter was from a bank about money he owed them

i feel like banging my head against a wall, we haven't even finished paying his course fees yet and he has massive student loan from before we got married (that he thinks i don't know about). he is such a great guy, he looks after me well and is always concerned about me, but yet i i feel so mad with him...why doesnt he just say if he has a problem, if i can manage with what we make, than why cant he? when i'm trying so hard not to overspend and to save,why borrow from banks? i dont want a dunya issue to affect our relationship but i dnot want to ignore it either.. i want to work with him to resolve the issue but dnt know how to approach the subject...?
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