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  • #46
    Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

    Originally posted by anahajara View Post
    Bubbly is only around on new years and I am not the one that buys it
    .
    Please for your sake stop drinking, even if it is a lil sip on the 1st of every year. hey ask you (O Muhammad) concerning alcoholic drink and gambling. Say: In them is a great sin, and (some) benefits for men, but the sin of them is greater than their benefit” (2.219)

    Anyways back to your husband, if you want to leave him then do so. but have some sort of plan ready. how will you be supporting the children financially.how will it affect your children. Its horrible being miserable but be ready for dealing with all your childrens issues. anyways good luck and no more DRINKING!! let us know how you get on :)
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    • #47
      Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

      Originally posted by anahajara View Post
      Bubbly is only around on new years and I am not the one that buys it
      .
      I'm not gonna gun you for the drinking or anything for that matter.

      But heres the thing, you will only have sakeenah when you have deen in your life.
      No deen, no sakeenah.

      Sakeenah means peace/contentment/satisfaction/happiness sorta thing.

      So ultimately, we only have ourselves to blame for the crap we go thru in life.

      Its cause we have forgotten Allah, that He has made us forget ourselves.
      There is rest only in the aakhira.
      Man will rest in the aakhira according to how hard he strives in dunya.

      - Khaalid Ibn Al Waleed (ra) -

      If you find yourself in a time where speech is regarded as knowledge,
      and knowledge is regarded as deeds,
      then you are in the worst of times, with the worst of people.

      - Abu Hazim Al Ashja'i (ra) -

      I saw a dog without any clothes on .
      That's right, a nude dog.
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      • #48
        Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

        Originally posted by anahajara View Post
        Assalam Alaikum

        he treats me like a slave and only comes to sleep with me when he wants sex. Yes..you heard that right...we dont even share the same bedroom because the youngest still wakes up at night.
        That comment presumes that you don't like it nor want it .... nothing but utter feminist garbage designed to betaise the male. I stopped taking you serious after that line.

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        • #49
          Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

          Originally posted by Inquisitive10 View Post
          That comment presumes that you don't like it nor want it .... nothing but utter feminist garbage designed to betaise the male. I stopped taking you serious after that line.
          The man is at fault, certainly.

          And :insha: you can be a little less harsh.
          Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

          "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
          - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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          • #50
            Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

            Originally posted by IbnulQayyim View Post
            these are major sins..and one of the reasons why ur life is messed up..
            better change than be sorry in the future.
            DItto,

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            • #51
              Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

              Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
              The man is at fault, certainly.

              And :insha: you can be a little less harsh.
              assuming what the thread starter said is all true, she is also at fault ...

              We can't really say if it's the Husbands fault either wihout hearing his side of the story ... which I doubt is going to happen ...

              also I find it bewildering that a Wife can complain about her Husband wanting to have sex with her ...

              Nauzubillah,

              especially considering what the Hadith say about this matter ...


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              • #52
                Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

                Well, that's true. But, husband is definitely in the wrong, too.
                Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                • #53
                  Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

                  Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                  Well, that's true. But, husband is definitely in the wrong, too.
                  Only if the wife is telling the Truth ...

                  we only have a one sided story here bro ...

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                  • #54
                    Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

                    she's not complaining he wants to have sex, shes complaining that when he doesnt want sex he doesnt give her company and affection

                    Recipes for all the family :inlove:
                    (and you thought I was a lazy feminazi which can't cook?)

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                    • #55
                      Re: Soooo Over My Marriage!!!!

                      Originally posted by RazielTemp View Post
                      Only if the wife is telling the Truth ...

                      we only have a one sided story here bro ...

                      :jkk:
                      One side of the story, yes. But, we have no reason to doubt her, or believe that she's lying.
                      Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                      "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                      - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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